I'm doing OOT bags.Were doing one per room plus a kids bag for the few that are coming. So at the most maybe 15 bags. Koozies, aloe, some first aid items, maybe a deck of cards or puzzle book(for on the beach),something edible and Appleton rum that I'm getting at the airport. I agree though 50 or 60 guest is alot! We went to a DW last year on a cruise. I even did her hair for free(I'm a hairstylist) and hardly got a thank you. Not that I expected her to do alot, but even just a little thanku note, bottle of wine etc, would have been nice. It still bothers me a little! I just want the people who are coming to know how much it means to us that they've taken the time and expense to be with us for are wedding.