Hi,This is what I've found to be the easiest way to contact her... Call the Beaches number and instead of using her extension dial the # for the wedding department. Someone can then connect you to her. I've caught her by surprise more then once. (ha ha) Does'nt always work but much better then waiting for her to call back and they can answer alot of questions to. As far as what not to skimp on, I guess I can answer that in a week. Feeling alittle crazy right now! Where did all the time go!