almost all of our family and friends are excited about the DW. mostly everyone is looking at it like a vacation and a wedding. which is the way you hope people react to the idea. BUT of course there's always someone who thinks they need to tell you how they feel even though you did not ask for their negative feedback. My aunt was that person. After telling my family, we were all together at dinner, that our plan was to have a DW my aunt decided to go into a 5 minute rant about why she doesnt fly and that she thinks people who have DW's should pay for it - meaning pay for everyone that goes. after hearing that and knowing that she is definitly not going to come, i'm not even sending her an invite. and since my aunt loves to keep putting her foot in her mouth i just know thanksgiving dinner this year will be very interesting!