I totally hear you! Every time I run across a "distant" family member who has heard about our engagement and where we plan to get married, they immediately add, "We can't wait to go to Mexico!" Ummmmm....ya. You are a family member that we see maybe every once every 3-4 years, I don't even remember your name, and we are trying to keep numbers down, so don't be holding your breath for that invite!!