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Hello, My name is Tony and I have joined this site to try to get some advise and help from any and all who will offer. I am getting married on Dec 31st, 2010. The wedding has to be "symbolic" at this point in time for many reasons. My fiance and I do not care that we are taking this route. This is my 3rd and her 2nd marriage. We have found a profound true love that does not warrant a legal document. When the time is right, however, we plan on making this union legal. Question is, does anyone have any advise on who can perform a symbolic ceremony in the United States? We plan on having the ceremony in NJ, we cannot leave the country due to the fact that our families will be in attendance and we have 5 children. Any help or advise will be greatly appreciated!!! Thank you all, Tony