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Melissa, I think the dress fits you great!! I just think there may be a difference in materials...could that be what is bothering you? Otherwise...they did a pretty good job and you look good in the dress!!

They look gorgeous....what a great idea!!

I have already been told that I am having a shower and a bachelorette party. Luckily, those whom want to throw it have already said that it is proper to only invite those that I invite to my wedding. If I were having a AHR, I would think that it would be okay to invite those invited to the AHR to a shower. A few years ago I was invited to a bridal shower and NOT the DW and let me tell you...I was like WTF? Don't do that. I was not upset at all at not being invited to the wedding as we were not good friends....basically acquaintances, but when I got the invite to the shower, I thought that it was in bad taste. It's like saying that you are good enough to bring me a gift, but did not quite make the cut as a guest. If this were a small affair....perhaps...but at least 100 people were there.

Just terrible.....so sorry that you are going through this. Unless they are very young or very immature...something else must be going on here. Who acts like this unprompted? Very odd...be done with them and don't look back.

Quote: Originally Posted by caligirl1282 Hi ladies, Im also looking at St Lucia. My fiance is obsessed with doing Jade Mountain but I cant rationalize spending that kind of $$ after the wedding. Im going to research these and hope I can convince him Hi, I looked into Jade Mountain after reading about it here...the cost is CRAZY!!! However...it does look FAB!! At least the FI has great taste You may want to take a look at Tip Advisor...very good reviews on all of these properties. I personally have heard only great things about Windjammer Landing.....however kids are allowed. Good luck and if you find out anything good...let us know.

Congrats and Welcome...with such a short time period within which to plan...you have certainly come to the right place!!

So sorry that yu are going through this. It does help to vent....just know that you are not alone....so many seem to be going through the same thing. Hang in there.

Quote: Originally Posted by Erika J I just called local shops and asked around. I also tried on normal samples and just tried to get an idea. I think kleinfelds has a ton of plus size samples, it would be fun to go there. I am trying to decide whether to go to Kleinfelds...on the show Say Yes to the Dress...it just seems like a high pressure sales environment....we shall see.

Quote: Originally Posted by *Rachel* I think it's always a good idea to not bitch to heavily about your significant other to anyone- friends, family, what not. Obviously people that love you will have your back and then when you kiss and make up with your honey, they are left feeling like he's a dirt bag. Not saying that's what happened here- just a general comment. ITA. Long after you have forgotten the indiscretion or slight of your mate...your family and friends will remember. You must be careful what you share about your mate with others.

Quote: Originally Posted by lisaloo79 Hi! sorry that I can't help you because I don't live anywhere near you, but you may want to check out this thread http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...s-women-41780/ I'm pretty sure we've covered the dress thing, but you can always ask assistance from our beautiful curvacious women!!!! PS. There's so many other great ideas in this thread!!! OMG...I owe you!! I did not see this thread. I was wonderign where all the plus-size brides were!! I entered Plus-size in my title search criteria...never thought to enter the word "Curvy." LOL What a thread...can't wait to go through it...thanks again!!

You look gorgeous in that dress...thanks for providing another source for me to look at dresses!!

I really just can't believe how DW's bring out the crazy in folks!!! It's unbelievable. I feel so bad for the OP. While I have come to realize that my wedding is about what me and my FI want, I have to admit, if my mother could not attend....I would be devastated. Maybe I grew up lucky, but I can't imagine a parent not moving heaven and earth to be present when their child gets married!!! That is unforgivable to me. Honestly....you are in between a rock and a hard place. In the end, it sounds as if your mother unfortunately has issues...don't let her ruin your day. Do what you feel is right in your heart. Perhaps you can reach out personally to your siblings and ask them would they attend even if your mother does not. I wish you all the best.

Cut her loose. I've only been engaged 3 1/2 weeks and I can't believe the half-hearted friends that are coming out of the woodwork. For some reason, folks want an invite to a wedding!! In your case, she has not been there when you needed her. Now that she may need YOUR support and wants an invite...here she comes. Nonsense. Your wedding is one of the most important days of your life...you want to be surrounded by the people that truly love and care about you. Leave this so-called friend and her negative energy far behind.

It sounds to me as if the real issue is that they are having an issue with paying for the trip. I would kindly explain to my family that they should not hold it against you that you felt comfortable enough with them to be truthful to them about an issue in your relationship. Tell them that if they do not come that they will have broken your heart. Explain that you are going to get married regardless and that you want them there. No you do not understand their insistence on not attending one of the most important days of your life because they THINK you are acting irrationally. I feel so bad for you....I hope it all works out.

Quote: Originally Posted by creoletexan @Mirandah, I went to their website and I really loved their photos. I submitted a request for a date, but I just wanted to know what is their cost. Do you just pay for their travel, or is there additional costs? I'm sort of naive when it comes to professional photography. I contacted them after seeing this post and yes...there are additional costs. I would contact them directly and ask them their costs for what you are looking for. Jacylinda's photos look gorgeous!!

Good for you!!! As usual...with the right "coaching" and a soft touch...we can usually get our way...HEHEHE...shhhh...don't tell my FI I said that!!! LOL

Quote: Originally Posted by kuteliya Not a plus size bride after looking for dresses in NY i can tell you the biggest selection of dresses i found in sample sizes were at RK Bridal and Source Mall @ Westbury. Try calling these 2 stores and seeing what their sample sizes are ... Thanks for the info....I was planning on going to RK Bridal anyway. As for the Source Mall...any particular store there?

Quote: Originally Posted by ErikDaGenErik just be careful ladies... the group rates are sometimes more expensive than the published rates online. i experienced this with AA flying from SFO to Cancun =( Very true. I wanted to set up a group booking for my guests, only to find out that the group fare was more than $150 more per person than it was as a single fare!!! A TA looked into it for me, and although she was able to do better...only $75 more per person...that was the best that she could do because her hands were tied. Also, you MUST book at least 10 people on the same exact flight....I did not want to be on the hook for this and I felt that I was not providing my guests with any measureable benefit...so..unfortunately...they will have to book air on their own. BTW...I also got the American Air discount, but it is only a 5% discount...not a 10% discount. I called Delta and was told that they no longer offered this benefit!!

Quote: Originally Posted by liznsergio What a horrible idea to even "tell" guests what kind of gifts are acceptable! . To me...that is the greatest offense. A gift is just that...a gift....

My vote was for the colored starfish too!!

Quote: Originally Posted by MsShelley I loved mine, noone could believe they weren't real! May I ask the name of the company from whom you purchased your real touch flowers from? Thanks.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mrs. R A good place to start is to find out what flowers will be in season, if you're using real flowers. When I embarked on the planning process, I was surprised to learn how little selection I would have in July in Jamaica. I just figured, it's an island-- there must be tons of flowers in every color available! Well, I discovered there is plenty to choose from if you want to FLY them in from the US or Asia, which comes at a hefty price. I would contact your resort's floral dept or the local florist you will be using and request a price list. Be sure to request samples of their previous work too. After you know the flowers you will be using, it's a bit easier to pick bridesmaid dresses to compliment, groomsmen attire etc. Good luck! Thanks so much for the advice....trying to decide now if Real Touch flowers might be an option for me. BTW...your picture is GORGEOUS!!

Quote: Originally Posted by webejettin Oh, and don't forget, they can clip the dress just as they do with the regular sample sizes for the little girls. I am a size 22 in wedding dresses and found that sizes 24 and 26 were still revealing about how much I liked the style on my body. I am less sure about trying on dresses that are "close" but too small. I could easily see what a 20 looked like, but when I went down more than a size, it no longer fit in the bust and was very difficult to judge. Thank you so much for your input. I guess I really should just call around. I also like the advice about clipping in a too big gown to see.

Thanks Maureen...I have been in contact with Jennifer about the Sandals resorts in St.Lucia...I was wondering if anyone has a preference as to which resort in St.Lucia or has stayed at any in St. Lucia and what their impression was of the resort. Thank you Kristyl...this is just what I was looking for.

Quote: Originally Posted by Sheree10 This is one of the many things I still haven't been able to make a decision on. One website that has been very helpful is The Perfect Palette The book "Destination Weddings for Dummies" suggests the following colors for a tropical wedding: lemon, lime, tangerine, hot pink or turquoise Bright colors definately work well for a DW. Also think about Mexico's colors maybe you can implement them too. I like the colors listed for a tropical wedding...will look into those.