Update: He has been sleeping/watching tv since 1:00 pm (afterwork)..I cooked dinner offered him a plate, shook his head no....
So I went out for a mani/pedi...came back still sleeping, hasn't touched food...
I guess we are not talking yet...
One good thing is no matter what we vowed....NO ONE WILL SLEEP ON THE COUCH...
So tonight I will accidently touch his feet with my fresh painted toes and see what happens....(wish me luck)...