I agree that it was tacky to put on the invitation, it wouldn't sit well with the guests and really does take away from the importance of the wedding event itself. Wow, thanks for your comments, these are some great suggestions to think about. We're also planning to move overseas within a year after our wedding, so naturally we'd prefer to get monetary gifts. I was even thinking to post on our website for registry to request gift cards from a list of stores, just because I understand how giving cash may be uncomfortable for some guests.