Sandra&Mario...thank you for your thoughts. You will be getting married the weekend before I arrive...we arrive on the 12th! Has your WC sent you pictures of cakes or flowers, anything like that?? How many people are you expecting? We are like you...between work and other friends weddings we could not go for a site visit. So I am overwhelmed...normally a BIG planner type, so the fact that I have to plan things a few days prior is driving me CRAZZZZZZY Can you tell..LOL