Yes as everyone has told you above, "Suck it up butter cup" , Kidding!!!!!!! you'll quickly forget who didn't make and focus on your day once your there. I have rehersed a speach I give to everyone that emails, calls or sends me "no's" through the grape vine (love those). "I am so sorry you can not make it to our wedding, Mark and I knew this going inot the planning of a DW, that everyone we love wouldn't be able to make it" We'll just have to party harder to make up for you not being there. Now can you babysit one of the dogs and shovel the driveway while were gone? Yeah I am ok with no now.... I don't take it personal... Good Luck and find your happy spot.