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Quote: Originally Posted by dewiggy Hi : I am also getting married at the GBP Tulum April 8, 2010 and have the wedding planned for 2pm and then dinner at the Tequila at 5:30. I am thinking about changing the dinner to a pool side but I think the dinner must start at 7pm then and that is a long time to wait since our wedding is at 2. I have also heard that you can have a private cocktail party after with a dj so I might do that instead and have the dinner at the Tequila Rest. Have you decided what you will be doing after wedding until the dinner? I want our guests to have a fun filled day any suggestions? Dawn We're getting married at 3pm and doing pictures right after, our dinner is booked for for 5.30 at the steak house. Then we will have a poolside reception for our speeches, first dance and a dance show. My stepdaughter is a dancer, she has planned a few dance routines with her cousins and the other kids. She will also get everyone else involved... She is a dance instructor and has no problem getting people involved. Should be fun.... we choose the steakhouse, I have been to both restaurants and enjoyed the steakhouse the best. Good Luck Sue

Quote: Originally Posted by caporrone I booked stacey for our wedding 30 days from today!!!!! I am super excited - we are actually paying more and putting her up over night so she can shoot for multiple days and take care of everything for us. I can't wait to see our pics, I know she is going to do a fabulous job. She has been very responsive and organized thus far, I don't forsee any problems. Good Luck, I'll certainly post my pics on the site when we get them I love your boston.... The sweetest creatures ever.

Oh Bella, Your big is fast approaching, don't sweat the same stuff, I know there not wha you and invisioned. The ones you received are very nice.... Jus a small detail... don't let it de-rail your train.

Good luck chickie... everyhing looks amazing,

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Wow that is a touching story... Congrats

I am going for the simple beach theme, we will only have about 5 tables so it should be easy to transport and assemble there.

Both very sad stories, I know having a sick family member is so hard and the weight of having time off work to deal with theses situations can be brutal. I hope everything turns out ok. I lost my mother 26 years ago xmas day, it's never been the same for our family since. You're in my prayers

Awesome job on those mugs... very creative

Quote: Originally Posted by Erika J Ashley sounds fun. So I went to return my bustie (sp?) that I bought in April because it was too big, to get a new one. I went from a 42D to a 34 D!!!!! Then that 34D bustie did not work out, so I went insane and bought asuper fancy bra and panty combo!!! Oh well I lost 40 lbs I should show it off Thats amazing!!!!! You should be out treating yourself.

Quote: Originally Posted by dewiggy Thanks for the post, you will have to keep me posted.................we are getting married at 2pm and then having our dinner in the Tequila Restaurant. I am thinking about going for the dinner by the pool. What are your plans for the day? We are getting married at 3pm and having dinner at 5pm at the Steak House... forget the name of the restaurant. we then plan to have a pool side reception for speeches and first dance. Trying to keep it simple, it can get carried away pretty quickly. We have about 25 people coming. You'll have no shortage of ideas and help on this site. Everyone is pretty friendly.

I am getting married Feb at the Tulum... i have been there before and it is a very beautiful resort. You'll love it for sure

I am getting married Feb at the Tulum... i have been there before and it is a very beautiful resort. You'll love it for sure

Speaking from a non cat owner that lives nextdoor to an outdoor cat, INDOOR!!!!! my neighbour has a cat that finds satisfaction in sitting in my bloody bay window grooming herself while my dogs are in the window jumping up and down barking their heads off trying to get out at her. I drive her away and she the goes to the back patio door and sunbathes on my back porch. My dogs go flipping nuts trying get her.... when I come home and something is broken I know smokey has been over for her visit to make my dogs stark raving mad. This cat teases the dogs and if it wasn't for my Boston that would rip head off instead of just chasing her away I'd be tempted to let them teach her a little leason. Not to mention their cat uses my flower beds as her litter box.... I can tell you the 50 or so poops that I cleaned up this spring so I could plant wasn't fun.... I walk my dogs and clean up after them immediately... Yeah INDOOR!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by CHAKLIT FUNNY!!! "it's 43 years old" My man refers to it as "him" Funny enough... we call the chest "the twins, the girls, whatever !!!! Our guys are totally comfortable calling them or him a cute name ....lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by jajb2010 Oohhh..I'm short-waisted and like you it's soo hard finding clothes that make you look lonnnnngggg... ha ha..even jeans I have the hardest time finding something that fits right cause my torso is non existent. I lost weight hoping it would help but it doesn't.. ha ha..I still look like I have a chest then straight to hips no in-between. I have the opposite problem.... Long body and the legs stopped growing at six years old. I can not sit in a compact car,my heads hits the roof and my feet barely touch the floor. Oh well we're not cookie cutter chicks

My FI's last name and mine will be "Vanderwouw" we're doing THE VANDERWOUW WEDDING CRASHERS on the back and front of shirt we're doing a palm tree with the resort name and Mayan Rivieria, small chest crest

I bought satin "no reason just liked them" lol... their pretty!!!

FI and i are leaving two days prior to our group, we have people coming from everwhere arriving within a day or so of each other. We're really lucky because our carrier allows a 100lbs each passenger. I have two kids in the house, mother inlaw and brother will be all here at the departure time so they can take anything I couldn't. Our plan is to give the OOT bags out at the "Meet and Greet night after the last of our guests arrive. We have the hangover kit however most of our stuff is fun water things, beach balls,water guns, footballs frizbees... So we're doing the transport the whole load of stuff with us trip.

Quote: Originally Posted by Jennybell1 This is a tough one...and Im so sorry your so stressed out so close to your wedding. Everyone is jealous by nature...its just a matter of what level of jealousy they have. So dont feel bad that you are feeling jealous. Some jealous behaviour I think is good for a relationship, it shows just how much you care about that person. So long as it isnt like "crazy" jealousy. Which it sounds as though you are not! As for the issue, well, I would have to say that yes he is marrying you, however if it bothers you that much, then he should have enough sense to remove any ex's from his FB. And he should try to limit his contact with his ex at work. As much as possible without it interfering with his job. You cant do anything about an ex he works with, unless he changes jobs, but I dont see that happening. I would have a talk with him and let him know how much it bothers you that he has contact with previous gf's. That it would make you feel better if he didnt. Riley and I had that conversation just after we got together, and we both agreed that we wouldnt have any contact with any of our ex's. Its only fair. You broke up for a reason, yes...but that doesnt mean you dont still care about that person in some shape or form. I have feelings that will stay with me forever with one of my ex's and he has the same feelings for me.....it would be a horrible outcome if we kept in touch. I just think that its very difficult for guys and girls to be friends...there are exceptions to this of course. My best friend is a guy, but there is nothing btwn us and that is very evident to everyone. Totally plutonic. However that is rarely the case. If it was me, I would Kibosh it. As would Riley with me. I dont beleive he would ever cheat on me nor would I on him....however opportunity knocks sometimes, and sometimes the people who say they never would, do. If it makes you uncomfortable, you need to let him know. Otherwise this will be a continual issue up for discussion and it will never go away. You dont want to start your life with him, only to have this lingering feeling that something isnt right. He is right - he is marrying you in a month, he loves you...if your uncomfortable, he needs to fix it. You have to go with your gut...it never lies....you need to deal with this issue now before it gets completely out of hand. Just make sure you do it in a calm manner and make sure you get all your points across but in a loving manner. He needs to understand how he is making you feel and the doubt you are feeling. I think if someone gets really upset about something that is brought to their attention, its bc they are hiding something. Think about it, if it was nothing he would have brushed it off and maybe even laughed it off. Not "blowing up" at you over something that concerns you. My ex boyfriend used to blow up me when I asked those questions bc I had similar issues of doubt etc....only for me to find out that I was right all along. Im sorry if this sounds harsh, and I am by no means telling you he is doing what you think he might be doing or posssibly playing with the idea...but you need to take care of #1 too remember. You need to deal with this now and get him to understand how this makes you feel. Once he understands this, he will do something about it, if he cares about you and your life together. If he doesnt, well .....and I hate to say it......but I would take a good look at what your doing before you wakl down that isle. If I had done that 10 years ago, I wouldnt be divorced right now and on my 2nd marriage. Please take the time to really think this over, like I said before, womens intuition is almost always right....dont ignore what you are feeling. Your feeling it for a reason. Whether its happening or not, you are feeling insecure and you need to figure out what needs to be done to make you feel secure in your relationship again. I wish you all the best and hope things can get resolved very quickly. Good Luck!! 100% in agreement!!

Quote: Originally Posted by classadiva Hi ladies...so glad to have been directed to this thread by Lisaloo....have been reading through it ever since. Just wanted to share a few places that I like. There is a plus-sized boutique here in NYC called MonfiC. It is small but has some great items. She also sells on-line. Her convertable dresses are FAB!! I have one in white. Monif C. contemporary plus size clothing, plus size dresses for women sizes 14-24 - Monif C Also, have you guys heard of these sites: www.kiyonna.com Plus Size Clothing | Size Appeal -Plus sized Trendy Clothing alight.com - trendy plus size clothing for women and junior plus for teens Great sites .... oh no more shopping

seriously I am on the floor laughing : not sure if anyone got to see the picture i posted in my message to sell the dress..... I think I hope I caught it in time lol.......too funny

Ok that isn't the right photo now i have read cheeks..... This is the right DRESS!!!!!! dear god now you know what sue has in her closet the other picture was wedding night dressy

Hi ladies, i just received a dress online from ebay, and I really like the dress however is is too big for me, I can not return it because it was ebay and I did order the size I ordered. I changed jobs a year and half ago and I guess I didn't realize I have lost that many inches around my bust line. I bought it for $26.00 and willing to sell for $22.00 plus shipping... I would do this post in the FS blog however it applies to a select group of brides... it is size 2xx and is a very light breathable fabric (cotton spandex) It has cute halter ties and gem stones... PM if you think this could be in your suitcase for your wedding. Any chickie out off country ""I'll gift wrap it" to avoid duties.... PM if you want more details....

Holy smokes what stress... I'd try WC or TA... Good Luck