SusieQ

Just be her friend... sounds like you already knew there was issues. Just hearing the ugly stuff is hard to take when you love someone. Having worked with people with these types of issues for a long time I have found that when people close to them have their lives on an upswing they seem to spiral downwards. I think when they see people like yourself with things together and moving foward in life they realize just how *ucked up their lives are. They just can not cope... I am really sorry to hear that your friend is ill... You have your life to live and all you can do is be a good friend and roll model. Good luck on your special day...

Quote: Originally Posted by shellk happy new year ladies.still feeling like crap but logged on here and felt much better straight away.jon at work today i was gonna take our tree and stuff down but thought it was too early.you made my mind up get it packed away. susie,hope your foot gets better quick.dont worry you can walk down the aisle on cruches lol. cant believe its work again on monday but we go to a concert on 19th,week afetr that its my hen doo then a week after that we are on that plane wwaayyyyhhaayyy. I am looking forward to getting back to work... i have been eating steady for two weeks... I need to get back a focus on work and pass this time away in a positive way. I am feeling good about all the xmas stuff being down and put away... enough it needed to go... I did what I needed to do even though I wanted to skip xmas this year lol.... We did it gals we made it through...

Quote: Originally Posted by vdaybride Hi Shells, sorry u are not feeling well. I hope you are better now. I guess there is a body of water between us because when I tried to get driving directions from my resort to yours.. it wasn't an option lol. I would love to meet for drinks and hugs . Susie- I hope your foot is better, I don't want you hobbling down the aisle!! The countdown is real now!! I was able to get a lot of time consuming last minute things done which is a great feeling. I am back to work on Monday ;/ I need one more week off to be completely done with wedding planning. I am waiting on emails I sent out looking for a cigar roller, transportation companies, sunset cruises for February 15th, and finalizing flower selections. I decided to have fake bouquets made for the ladies and bouts for the gentlemen and wrist coursages for the moms. I hope they come out good! Keeping my fingers crossed. The entire order was less than $50 including shipping..I will post pics when I get the order. Timberly that is amazing price... post the pictures as soon as you get them... Damn girl we're getting close... Do you have a final head count yet? I am still waiting for my brother... I so want to kill him right now... He told me he would book on Wednesday and still hasn't pulled the trigger..... I could pull the trigger now!!!!! I am up and moving easier today... it is a little black and blue... Thats what you get when you try to skate home on ice and snow. weeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!up she goes and down she goes... what a stupid girl.. could have broken something.... i need to grow up lol

You look better than the model just my 2cents.... You look amazing in that dress!!!! Sorry I wish !!! in my dreams , I am a plus size gal.. just being nosey... Good luck in you venture to sell... Again you look totally amazing in the dress

Jerseykitten that is one beautiful ring... I love the picture.... I can not get a good picture of mine, it is always blurry.

OH Lisa!!! thank you for sharing your story with us. You have the time of your life and please update us when you get back. Take Care Girl

amazing job.. i love the bag... hope you had a blast.. congrats

hate... something just not right about the texture sudoku puzzles?

hate! red wine?

I just woke up from a 3 hour nappy heheheheh Well I did hobble around for a few hours this afternoon and got the tree down and the xmas junk all put away... It's done now bring on the wedding.... I am down to 20 something days Yipppeeeeeee

Congrats Mike and Wendy

Oh Shells sorry to hear NY wasn't what you wanted... I hear the wanting to celebrate the end of 09... I totally needed to say good bye to last year aswell, Bring on 2010!!!! Tell jon not to get discouraged with his drivers test failed 3 times and the 4th was lucky. I was just very nervous and made stupid mistakes. We had a nice evening at friends and rang in the new year... I slipped and twisted my ankle on our way home... Damn it is hurting this morning. I have it up hoping it'll heal quickly. Happy New Years ladies!!!!!!!

salty - peanuts

game - cards

sounds like she is a real drama queen.... I say ignore her!!!

hate... scared I'd break my neck Budlite with lime?

mittens - snowballs

I had a moment of not sleeping for 2 hours last nite around 3am, I searched for two hours for your girl and no luck.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Susie-- I want an australian shepard so bad-- is that the one that you have to share custody with the ex? Brooke the Boston I share with my ex and she'll stay there while I am away. Sweetpea is going to our groomers for the week the kids are away. They are only away 2 weeks and Mark and I are gone 2 weeks. Krista I am glad your feeling better.Have fun tonight... My bro friend is really one of those people that never seem to get it together. She has issues that she needs to deal with. I really don't want to be apart of it... I just don't want that kind of negitive behavior around me. I have told my brother this and he understands... Life is about choices. Shells I hope Jon aced his test... party hardy girlie I am finished work for this year.... Bring on the wedding lol

This was a hard month to vote... so many wonderful gals... I had to make it shellk she never misses a newbie... Everyone gets the warm "hello, how ya doing" Good luck ladies

love - bar hoping "love them and leave quick" snow?

Quote: Originally Posted by Raykel Susie! Poor Sweetpea....I would take her. I am sure she would do ok with my Border Collies. They shed so much - not as much as an Aussie, but right up there! One of mine nearly died when I boarded him years ago....so this time they are going to the vet together and staying in one of the gynormous kennels there. That way if anything happens they have help on hand! Does your vet board? Then she would know the people there at least. Good news your brother booked! Alone I presume? Yeah he booked alone....We met for coffee a couple days ago and had a really good chat about the wedding and the Chic. He knows how I feel about her and he is really just feeling sorry for her. I told him what he is doing is wrong and he needs to move on. She moves into her apartment tomorrow and hopefully he'll back off seeing her. I think this girl has burnt every bridge in her life... She is 40 something and no friend to take her in!!!! seriously!!!!! Our groomer boards so I am calling her today, Sweetpea has been there many times for grooming. She is just such a big baby. "K" going to work

Stunning!!!! You have that happy bride look... Best of Luck sweetie

Yup sending you good karma here bella.... They'll come ... stop stressing yourself... Their coming!!!!

Morning ladies, I did get back to sleep. I go through periods of not sleeping for more than a few hours,it's just stress. I have been feeling very stressed the last few days, with my brother booking to go to Mexico I now have to find someone to take care of my baby girl Sweetpea. Thats my Aussie Shepherd and she is very hard to board out because of the dog hair and her temperment. Sweetpea is scared of everyone and everything, poor baby. I'll have to make some phone calls this morning to find care for her. Off to work here ladies... Happy New Year!!!! Ali I have to ask how much weight have you lost? You look thin in your pictures... Don't starve yourself too much girlie