Hi Crystal
My planning in Jamaica started exactly as yours is, so I put on my organizational hat and created a spread sheet of everything I wanted at the wedding, you know like cake, wine toast, beach wedding, sit down dinner, breakfast in bed ect....I then went to each and every resort in Jamaica and determined the cost to host a wedding for 10, including our room cost but not the room costs of our guests. I narrowed it down to three locations and then we sat down and discussed all three. We also spent time on the forums reading the reviews of each of the locations. It really helped us out and gave us the tools to make the decision. Hope this helped, good luck and happy planning.