I wasn't planning on giving OOT bags or favors to anyone except who we invite to the wedding. I do understand that some people will not know everyone, but that is why I thought we would invite everyone with a guest. I know there is nothing we can do as to others coming, Jamaica is a public place. I just feel that it is our wedding. People are coming for a few days, but I hoped that they would see this is for our wedding. Michelle10, I hope our guests think the way you do. My fiance is very worried about this. Thanks for all the input. Guess we will see what happens.