Awhh I totally agree with everyone else....if this is what you want than do it...all that matters is that you and your FI are getting married!!! Isn't that exciting enough? I even chose a resort that was a little cheaper so that I could accomadate more of my guests...maybe that is what is troubleing your family b/c Atlantis is very very expensive and maybe some people wont be able to afford to come? just a suggestion...anyways Good Luck with everything and try to enjoy your time planning..this is suppse to be a fun & exciting time in our lives not a stressful awful experience like it sounds like you are having.