Quote: Originally Posted by Kelie11 Yes Sammysgirl...that does.. thank you! I hope my guests are planning to do the same. It's so hard with a destination wedding because you know going into it that there will be guests who can't attend. I said to myself that I would understand and not mind. While I do understand completely, it upsets me as well. But, what can you do. I wish I could affrod to fly them all out! I feel the same way 100%. I have quite a few people that are on the fence as to whether or not they will be able to come. I have just been telling myself that as long as my immediate family, my FI and my best friend and her husband are there I will be thrilled! When I get the "decline" RSVP responses in the mail, you can't help but to hurt a little bit, but we all knew going into the destination thing that there would be plenty of people that couldn't make it--or in my case any ways!