Jen- its such a tough decision because they both look stunning on you! I love the back of the 1st one, but I really like the uniqueness of the 2nd one. At the end of the day I don't think you can go wrong with either one! You are just one of those lucky girls who looks great in a lot of dresses! Pick the one that makes you feel beautiful and maybe a little sexy Let us know what you decide! Sorry I didn't help...this is coming from someone who has had like 6 diff. dresses! haha, don't worry I don't have that many now