*Linds*

I really need to find a place in my area thta does this!!!

absolutely beautiful Ange! Its so perfect for you! Fits you like a perfect glove! You will be such a beautiful bride

yay!!!! I'm so glad to hear that you got this all worked out!

I am loving all your tips!!!!!! Esp the packing!

Kimmy- I love that you are a little thief! I am working on booking our couples massages right now..woot!

ummmm hello gorgeous hottie!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOu look so amazing and sexy!!!!!

Anxiously awaiting your review Kimmy

Kimmy- I would love to meet up too! Pming you!

J- omg I LOVE your story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for the support girls!

These are all people who were agreeable and RSVPed to come to Mexico. All have been saying that they were coming until yesterday. This is his mom, dad, brother. His brother says its financial. His mom just started a new job and says she will get fired, his dad is just a selfish idiot.

no to the wedding!!!!

I am literally on the phone with his brother (best man) right now and he isn't going either.

Vlvetter- that's exactly where I am stuck! I don't want to make myself look bad by not showing up, which will absolutely reflect poorly on me considering its a shower with his side of the family, of course they are going to take each others side! One of the things that upsets me the most is his dad's excuse. His dad isn't going because he's so cheap and selfish, but instead he told sam that the reason he isn't going is because he doesn't believe in not getting married in a church!!! It is such BS! This is coming from a man that is an alcoholic and divorced! Not to say that there is anything wrong with being divorced, but its not exactly like he's the most Godly man.

Jen- that's the whole thing. NONE of his family is coming except is brother. Granted many of his family members don't have much money or are old and don't feel comfortable traveling that far, so in terms of people actually coming to the shower that are coming to the wedding--there is just one, his brother. At this point I'm not really sure I care of I offend anyone because they have no problem with hanging us out to dry. His parents have done NOTHING to help my family! My parents are paying for everything! Including our traditional AHR that will be just like a regular wedding reception without the ceremony back home! I don't even want his mom and dad there because I don't feel like they deserve to attend. If they can't pony up any money to help, extend a helping offering like watch our dogs or something, or come to Mexico, then why should they get to ccome party with everyone and drink the drinks and eat the food that my parents paid for....its so ridiculous in my mind. At the same time, I don't want to stoop to their level of having such poor sense of self and what is right by not going to the shower. I am a very strong woman, and I won't play nicey nice to them when I see them. So if I do go, they will both get the cold shoulder, because that's what they have given me and it would go against everything I stand for if I acted all fake like it is no big deal....ugh! FML!

I love those wedges! I am 5'1 and supposed to be wearing a 4 inch stilleto and I'm not sure if I can swing it or not!!!

I vote #1!It flatters your body beautifully! Idk what size you are but i'm selling a brand new one! Size 8p!

Kris- I love that pic!

Well girls, I hit my one month mark yesterday...and found out that neither S's mom or dad will be coming to Mexico. I am beyond angry. We are supposed to have a shower with his side of the family this weekend and I am strongly considering not going. If they can't support us in our marriage, I really see no reason to spend time with them. I know it sounds selfish, but there is not one good reason for his parents not to come. At this point I want nothing to do with them. Everything is always on their terms. When I have a baby they will be all over me, but for something that might put them out of their comfort zone a little bit they can't do it. Not even for their son. There are no words to describe how I am feeling right now. I'm really not sure what to do at this point.

I like the boxes because you were able to decorate them and make them super personal!

omg that is such a creative idea! I love it!

Check out Tammy's blog for a few additional pics of me from the marathon! Tammy is seriously SO talented! If anyone is thinking of doing this, you should check her out!!! Tammy B Photography

The weather is beautiful today, I leave for my wedding in less than 30 days, and I have an upcoming interview that I am extremely excited about!

you are simply beautiful!!!! Thank you for sharing and brightening my day

Karen- holy crap you are Gorge!!!