I just read through some of these, and I realized that I am really lucky to have had a "almost" stress free planning process! My bridesmaids LOVED the dress I chose, my wedding dress had to be taken IN, my guests grumbled about my wedding being down south, but it didn't bug me.
My one biggest stressor was that my TA up and left his company in March, and left my file to a woman who could not speak English, told me things that were wrong but that she said were "facts", and who finally I was treated so badly by that the district manager of the company got involved, moved my file and dismissed the replacement travel agent. The new agent has been nothing but a dream, fantastic, fast responding and knowledgable! Oh... and I had some best friend drama a while back but in the end I just decided that until the whole wedding process was over I couldn't speak to her.. since she was ruining it for me in every way.
I always thought I was a hot head, but the wedding planning process has shown me I'm actually pretty calm, cool and collected!