I have a crazy FFIL, drives me crazy in LIFE and the wedding hasn't even rolled around yet!! He is like another girls FMIL, bragging about spending money on this and that, but said he would "lend" FI money for the wedding... well I told FI that any money he would use to pay back to his dad would come out of HIS money, not mine! My parents are in no way asking to be paid back, thats not how it works! As well, he gives off that vibe of "I don't like you but I tolerate you because I have to"... brings up FI's ex, and sometimes is downright rude. My theory on this is because FI is French and I am English... and in the French community (AKA Quebec for you Canadians, you will hear me on this one) it is frowned upon to date someone "outside your language"... its this whole culture protection thing they have going on. ANYWAY.
I have lots more ranting to do, but I will let someone else take a turn... haha