Lisa, you made me cry all over again!! I'm just so happy that I was able to help out. My friend lost his father to the same thing (i'm not sure if I told you about that or not). It's true we may have all come together due to a DW, but we've reached beyond that and found that we not only have wonderful compassionate women to reach out to about our wedding vents and details, but also those trying times in our lives when having a strong support group becomes extremely important. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.