There's nothing rude about that, I only plan on having a welcome dinner and the wedding day set for them, everything else is up to them. I'm providing them with links and information on the area and what to do and even have a section on my website that states that we understand this is their vacation to so we have decided not to plan a lot of activities to take up their time so that they can explore and relax for themselves.
I agree with what Yael said, if you cousin is that close to you then he should be standing by your side, and as for your younger cousin see about including him in other aspects of the ceremony. It almost makes it more of an obligation though since she's giving you such a large gift making it more difficult.
Wow that is tough, I understand the convenience of it and all. However, she's already married and has been able to have her time, and this is supposed to be your's, asking you to share that kind of takes away from it. You definitely need to sit her down and explain how you're feeling to her. I'm sure she would be understanding and if you are ok with it maybe make sure they are at separate ends of the week.
Hey girls, I thought I would share this article with you as it may be helpful for all the future DT brides out there with travel arrangements. There is currently an airport under development in Tulum!
Mexico's next big destination: The Costa Maya - Top Stories - etravelblackboard.us
I'm spending $1200 for unlimited photos of my wedding, welcome dinner, e-pics, TTD, AHR, editing and 2 CD's, and then I'm paying for their trip to Mexico for 3 days. So when the final total is about $2400.