Melly - I'm sending out a separate invite for the AHR simply for 2 reasons, 1. we aren't telling people we are having one yet so they don't use that as an excuse not to go to Mexico, and 2. because we only invited a select few to Mexico anyway so we have to make more invites anyway. Â Nan - those shoes are cute....here are my shoes, the first pair are similar to those actually, I'm not sure about them yet, I was going to go barefoot but my whole wedding party towers over me (I'm 5'2) but I'll definitely be wearing the green ones for the reception.