purpleshells

hmmm..i should do that with our 2 newfies...if i were to get married at home,they woulda totally have been the flower ring and the ring bearer.lol

ya its a lot like LOVE ACTUALLY...except love actually was better....was disapointed..but usually when theres a lot of actors in it...u know its gonna be bad..

i know..i know..horribly negative and mean..i take it back...!!!

youre right..i felt horrible for her too... but we are blessed.........unless our future hubbys turn around and cheat on us for being too fat...........blah....negative,i know....

hey 2 1/2 mts left for me,cannot believe it!!!! we thought we were gonna be big max. 10 ppl we are now 30! TOTALLY SHOCKED

awww thanks girls, i feel better

i hope i will be able to look pass the fatness in the pics.....or that our photographer is good at taking pictures in the best angles..hehe

I need to vent........ I feel like the fattest bride to be in history....i know im not, i just feel disgusted of myself..why didnt i do this..... i had lost 15 lbs gained about 5-7 lbs back......... i had 8 mts to lose 50 lbs.........and now only 2 1/2 months to go,but really only one because I need to do dress fitting a month prior....so...cant lose weight after that...or else the dress will fit oddly....and loosely.... this is suppose to be the best day of my life and i feel like.....i wont appreciate it because im so fat.....ill look back at the picture and hate them instead of love them...... :*( i hope i am not offending others........please dont take any offence....this vent is about ME, not other brides, i just needed to say it out loud to people who would listen and understand my feelings..unlike my 95 lbs friends......... or fiance who says he loves me no matter what....but this is about ME and my self image.........being horrified of yourself...its not fun

tourqoise and white and beige....starfsh!

hey mel...she is...sucks but yep.....

beautiful pictures!!

pmd you about the table runners

i know they talk about this group a lot on the melia las dunas brides group

there will always be people who will find SOMETHING to complain about..... and u know what you gotta say to yourself; TOO BAD...this is YOUR wedding YOUR DAY no one elses, they all had their own days, so do whats best for you. they wanna complain, dont take it to heart, everyone has something to say, its up to you to filter what matters. we had family say well were american we cant go to cuba, but even when they are here in the city, they dont even call us or want to see us, so why would we change our destination for them when they are most likely not going to even come anyway!

ah as much as we try not to,as women we tend to worry/stress about everything and everyone...and it increases big time at our wedding,weve been dreaming about this for yrs..however..weather is uncontrollable and so are peoples thoughts....we need to somehow...speaking for myself as well here, thinking and worrying about everyone else and concentrate on US and OUR day! I know it def. sucks we pay to do a DW part of the reason, for me anyway, for the SUN....here in montreal the past 2 summers have been RAIN RAIN RAIN...so we have much better chances in getting sun there the here....but if it rains...not much w can do about it, i know i will def. be disapointed but you know what your in a tropical place with a beautiful beach..with every1 you care about around you.. best thing you can do I guess is really check our the yearly temperature in the city you are going to and try to pick your wedding date accordingly...thats what we did we picked the MLD for #1 cost,beach,5 stars, reviews and may because cost and temperature, in cuba sometimes in dec,jan,feb it can often be tricky....and we did not want any spring breakers..so we decided for april/may but april was booked, def did not want EXTREME HEAT (which is what i am worried about..) so voila.... thanks for posting this thread it will be hopefully help for future brides....and thanks for being honest... atleast you are able to look back and be happy about your wedding...there are always pros and cons everywhere we go to get married...abroad or at home... you gotta choose whats best for you in the long run......

hey im interested in the cake topper....

after 2 years of being engaged we still most of the time say,bf/gf.lol but fiance sounds so much better!!! lol

my engaged ring is over 2 yrs old and its white gold and there has been NO issue...did he buy it from a shopping mall store because often times they arent the best qualities....not as much as they make you think they are..my uncle is our jeweler thank god we do not need to worry......

ive been looking for the same..no one replied I just need one tho... if you know a place that sells 3 for a good price let me know..or else i found some on ebay for 40$ each + shipping.....

I wanna see pictures...wheres the website? can I seeeee??

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My fiance and I met on plentyoffish.com my friend who had met her bf at the time put me on there, i had given up on men, did not want to put myself online..but she said just try it...5min. later Jason(my fiance wrote to me and .... we met a week later, after talking on the phone and connecting so easily....we decided to meet, he showed up at my door.....my dog, greeting him and he bent down to say hi to her, which i thought was the cutest thing, i NEEDED an animal lover......we chatted on the couch for a little bit and went for coffee and we have been inseperable ever since... I think a lot of people meet off the net these days..almost every friend I have has done so.... I did not want to meet someone who was the party kind....through friends....no one really knew anyone...at school i was in the arts.....no need to say more there and I work with the elderly which once again if filled with women...so..... online was the best option afterall

3 mts...wow.....thats crazy

hey..i could SORTA under ur SIL.... let me explain why; I wanted to do the same, the day I get pregnant and give bith that is..lol.....BECAUSE my in laws are a little too much, and I would want the birth to be about us as a couple and the baby, i dont want any stress than i will already have that day...I already told them I would not want anyone in the hospital and that i would call them once we are home and a little rested..... because once you start allowing people to come over to see the baby, it does not stop, EVERYONE wants to see the baby and its normal, and you want everyone to meet the new born as well.. but the baby will not change much within a week after birth.....and it gives the couple time to enjoy their baby and rest a little and get use to having a baby at the same time and be able to greet the guests right.... So, I can only speak for ourselves... but that is my reasoning, fiance does not agree though, he wants a party in the room, which is cute and I get that. but he wont be the one in extreme pain! so he is beginning to understand my reasoning..its not to hurt anyone or to push people away does that make sense?