My parents live in WI and we live in VA. My FI's mom lives with us but has stage 4 cancer, so we can't rely on her to be able to come down with them. The kids can fly back with their uncle, he lives 6 miles from us. The biggest problem is getting them down there 1/2 way through the week. Oh yeah AND we don't know if their bio mom will allow them to be there the whole week, she doesn't know the wedding is outta the country yet.