Quote: Originally Posted by swankster77 does anyone know the order of the ceremony (civil)? i was starting to think about programs and wondered what info to put on there regarding the ceremony... what's everyone else doing? This is how our cermony went. I don't know how long everything took exactly but the whole thing only took about 20 min.
First they asked everyone if they agree with out marriage. The group says yes and it all begins.
The judge recites a story about love and marriage, all in Spanish. Then your WC will recite the same story in English. I wish I could tell you more but after listening to it all in Spanish we started tuning her out and didn't really listen to the English version. My MIL said that it was really pretty though. (time: approx. 10 min)
Then you do the exchanging of rings. Again in Spanish then English. This is piece by piece though so it was easier for us to pay attention. This is the bit where you say "I do". (time: approx. 5 min).
Next is when the bride and groom sign and then the 2 witnessess on either side. There are 3 pages that each person needs to sign. Once everyone has signed the bride and groom put their thumb prints on each page. Have no fear they give you a cloth so you don't get black ink all over your dress.(time: approx. 5 min).
After that you are pronounced husband and wife in Spanish then English....and you have your first married kiss. Yay!
IMO, it was the perfect length of time for the ceremony, I just wished I had paid more attention. I did bring a ceremony that I had put together myself but since it wasn't translated it was kind of brushed aside. :-( If I were to do it again, I would have sent the ceremony to the WC before hand so that it could have been translated and I could have had more of what I wanted.
I suppose it doesn't really matter though because in the end I'm still married to my special someone.