Quote: Originally Posted by nbills511 LOL...yes, that was my initial thought...190 people! We haven't sent out save the dates yet...so we aren't committed to that number. We unfortunately both come from large families (60 of the 190 is family not including kids under 1...and we are pretty much the last couple in all of our different friend groups to get married....so we've attended quite a few weddings over the last 3 - 4 years...and feel like we need to invite all those people who invited us. What are your thoughts on that?? FI felt pretty strongly about including everyone whose wedding we attended. Don't get me wrong...I'd love to have a huge group there to celebrate....but I also don't want to go broke paying for the wedding since FI and I are fully funding the event!! Hey, My fiance and I invited almost the same amout we sent out maybe 175 invites and well that is not including the +1,2,3,etc. LOL... We at the moment have around 60 that RSVP and booked there flights... Just remember alot of people in the beginning say they are going. (we have over 80+RSVps, not all of them are actually going) Then as the time gets closer people forget to save money or etc. and then they can't make it... I'm telling you we had the numbers rise to the high 80s and now we are back to the 60s.. (Thank God, hopefully it stays like that lol)... Good Luck...