I agree.. Lol But I know my family and they are going to want to party all night.. I am also trying to find soemthing for people to do after. I have a question for anyone who can answer. I will be having my reception in the ballroom ending at 8:30pm. Would I have to pay extra to stay there and continue to party if I dont need the staff anymore. I know this might sound a little off, but I am on a budget and have almost 80 guests and can't pay extra for each person and every extra hour. I was thinking of purchasing bottles and taking them out at the end and putting 1-2 bottles on each table. Letting the party become just a huge party and every table having their own bottles so there would be no need for waiters.... I am also bringing the DJ so I dont need to rent anything..DO you think she would let this happen ...