Fi and I dated for 2 years, on and off, before getting serious. I had been with someone else for 2 years when we met, and it took me another 2 years to completely break things off with the ex. Because of the ex, we had many, MANY arguments and stopped talking several times. In September 2007, we stopped talking and vowed never to see or hear from each other again. My 2 best girlfriends and I have exchanged Christmas gifts every year since elementary school, and had planned to do our exchange that year on New Year's Eve, at D's house before going out for the night. D and Fi's best friend were roommates at the time. S got to D's house before me, and text, "R is here. Wanna meet somewhere else?" I said no, it's ok...I just won't talk to him. I showed up at the house, and all of the feelings for Fi that I never wanted to have came right back. He told me later that he felt the same way. We didn't talk at first, but before we went out that night (Fi and his best friend didn't come out with us), we were talking again like nothing had ever happened. I knew at that moment that he was the one. We figured God must have intervened and brought us together again because it's meant to be. I've never had such a deep emotional connection with anyone. I ditched the ex for the last time, and we got together officially a month later.