we are staying at beaches turks and caicos for 11 days total. I think that was the best way to go for us! All inclusive luxury for 11 days. Cant beat it. We will be there for 5 days before our wedding, wedding day, and then 5 days after.
Some of our guests will be there the week of our honeymoon but it doesnt really bother us. We will spend alone time and have planned some couple only excursions. But we live across the country from my entire family and all of my friends (and now his friends as well) so I dont mind one bit spending time with them! I wasnt about to tell them when they could and could not vacation. They are traveling a long way to celebrate our wedding with us.