I agree with Love3..my motto was always "in order to have a friend you have to know how to be one", and if someone isn't a friend to you they don't deserve having you as a friend. Financial situation is one thing...how it's said to you is another. We are all in the same boat of asking people to tap into their finances to come to our wedding, and with that in mind we are all aware that some people wont be able to make it and still all decided to have it away anyway..with the understanding that some people may not be able to come and we are all ok with that (as hurtful as it may be, we do all understand). BUT to say stop bugging me? F that!!!