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I thought I would do the girls hair and makeup and it just ended up being a lot. Plus I got them Coach wristlets and other gifts. So I paid for my mom and sister (MOH). I would check the vendor sites...maybe someone from the Cancun area will come in. I think I read somewhere there was a Mac girl in Cancun...

I don't remember abou the bell...so many other things going on ;-)

It's in the shopping area of the resort that all 5 hotels have access to. It's near the spa and gazebo. Here's the outside.

Wow it is a busy weekend! I can't wait for the reviews. Happy Wedding Day Cara!!!!!!!

Very original, good find at Kohl's. You did a great job!!!

Diane - Enjoy yourself and have the BEST time EVER!!!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Lindobride14 Thanks. That's the timeline we were thinking of too, but the WC said there wouldn't be enough sunlight left at 6:00 for photos. We are not yet sure if we're going to do the legal here first or do both in Mexico. So was it first the legal, immediately followed by the Catholic (both performed in the chapel)? The legal part was done first and the judge usually doesn't stick around for the readings or sand ceremony type stuff. They are on a tight schedule. There are 2 in the area and they get booked. The WC should step in and call up people who are reading, but ours didn't so my husband announced our first reader and the next two followed suit after that. I would recommend going early because it's January, the sun sets ealier than May. I looked your day up for Cancun, MX, (that's the closest we normally get) Sunrise: 6:27am Sunset: 5:31pm Moonrise: 8:44pm Moonset: 8:24am

Quote: Originally Posted by anacj13 Ivan do you have any pictures? Here is the Iberostar Paraiso chapel - Our Lady of the Paradise.

Quote: Originally Posted by anacj13 We are visiting this chapel at the end of May. We would be having our ceremony at around 3pm also....was it really hot for you guys at that time? I had no idea there was no AC in there... It was hot in there, but it's May in Mexico. November will be cooler and less humid. The chapel was absolutely perfect for us. The beach was crowded with a lot of on-lookers and Speedos everywhere. We preferred the privacy. The Iberostar really does a nice job.

Quote: Originally Posted by Lindobride14 Great review! I'm definitely going to take your advice on the DJ and Florist recommendations, and the cigar roller was a nice touch! What was your timeline for the legal ceremony, chapel ceremomy, cocktail hour, and reception? It was definitely well worth the money =) Ceremony - 5:00 Cocktail Hour - 6:00 Reception - 7:00 We were late to the ceremony and lost our judge, so keep in mind they don't think anyone will be late down there, not like the states where the bride is never on time. =) That threw us off alittle, we started the reception at 7:15 ish.

I got mine at Annie Sez, it was a very random buy (wasn't looking). It was black halter on top with a white tulle skirt. He matched me and wore white linen pants with the black linen shirt.

We did Father Daughter by Paul Simon...so not cheesy. And it's an amazing song.

Quote: Originally Posted by katrina305 Beautiful pics!! Can you tell me where/how you found a cigar roller? Katrina - I asked my WC and she said the hotel had one and I just scheduled to have him from 9:30-10:30. It was a lot simplier than I thought. He wasn't an outside vendor, so it was easy. I would just ask you WC or hotel.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mags Wow!!! So much fun to read!!! OK, so for the private reception you had to pay how much for extra persons? I know that the private reception is for 35 or more and for now only 33 have booked...hopefully more will book because I really want to have a private reception! About the DJ, do you mine me asking how much you paid Thanks again!! Mags - The private reception was $800, and for every package you have to pay extra per head, even if it's an ala carte. That price is $20 extra. My breakdown was Package $2450 (including 10 people) Extra Per Head (@ $20 for 60 people) = $1200 Private Rental = $800 Cocktail Hour (@ $12pp for 70 people) = 840 The DJ was $650 for 4 hours. And he was so well worth it!!!!!

We made 70 program and came home with 40. If you make them, just make half. Menus are not needed (I don't think) Focus on table seating and your flowers... Best of Luck!

Quote: Originally Posted by Lindobride14 Hi Shannon! We just booked the Lindo yesterday and are getting married at the Chapel at the Iberostar as well! We are inviting quite a lot of guests (both have huge families) and are "definites" are adding up to 60 guests already, so we will be packing them in as well. I was told the best time to do a catholic ceremony is 3:00 so there is enough time for pictures afterward before the sun goes down. My concern is that will leave a LOT of time until the reception starts. Are you doing a cocktail hour afterwards? Or leaving guests to their own devices while you take pictures? Another question: Are you doing the "legal" wedding at home first? We are considering this, but I wasn't sure if that would affect the whole Pre-Cana and Catholic wedding requirements if we're already legally married? We actually did a 5:00 ceremony that started late so it was really 5:30. It depends on the time of year as well...we went to the internet to the projected sunset times and went from there. We did the legal (civil) ceremony and the paper work is expected in 4 months. If you do it at home...then it's just a blessing ceremony. Either way it was beautiful. No air conditioning though.

Welcome, Congrats and Good Luck!!!

It's up....I posted my review: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...-2010-a-58966/

Okay, so posted my review. http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...-2010-a-58966/

Cocktail Hour - ?? We weren’t there, but everyone said the food was good and the drinks were flowing. So that’s a plus. There were cold and hot appetizers, cheeses, salads and fruits. We played our iPod for that hour and apparently it was on repeat for a while, so designate someone to check on that if you are out taking pictures (which we were). Dinner Reception – A- We had our dinner at the Italian Restaurant (used to be the Tropical) – open air (but covered). It was a private reception, we rented the restaurant for $800 on top of what we paid extra per head. The options were steak or grouper. I had the grouper and it was delicious. My husband had the steak and he said it was really good. So two thumbs up for dinner. The area was well lit and nicely decorated. We opted for the white wedding, so white table linens, chair covers and bows, and white silk bows through the columns with ivy. It was really nice. You can see in the background… A Table Shot Cake – A We had a three tier cake. Top - cheesecake, middle - vanilla and bottom – chocolate. I didn’t eat any (other than feeding each other) and it was good…and I don’t eat cheesecake. But everyone said it was yummy and moist. It was the starting to tilt (with the humidity) but we pulled it off. We almost forgot the cake, we were having such a good time, at 10:30 my photographer comes over and says “Do you want to cut the cakeâ€, I was shocked with how late it was…the night just flew. DJ – A+ If you get married in the Riviera Maya…get DOREMIXX. The DJ we had from this company was absolutely awesome. He met with us a few days prior to the wedding and got our entrance names and songs and was really on point. Our entrance was for the Bridal Party to come into “Tonight’s Gonna Be a Good Night†by the Black Eyed Peas and then mix in IMMABE, Boom Boom Pow, and Let’s Get it Started for us and he did BETTER than GREAT! He really got the party moving. He played our suggested songs for dinner and then got it started again for dancing. He needed some guidance regarding timing but I had no problem helping him along. We were dancing all night. It was so hot, but no one cared…we were just having so much fun! Cigar Roller – A We hired the hotel cigar roller for an hour. We set a price of $150 worth of cigars that ranged from $4 - $9. He was very nice, quiet and just did his job. The boys appreciated the cigars and my husband walked away with about 5-7 of the leftovers. It was a good $150 spent. Photography – A+++ Our photographer was Claudia Rodriguez and I cannot recommend her enough. Not only was she the photographer, she acted as wedding coordinator. She really took the reins and told us exactly what to do and where to go. She was so easy to work with, that although I had the tips already sorted and in envelopes, we opened hers up and threw in an extra $50, she really was great. I cannot wait for the pictures in 4-6 weeks. Book with Claudia…she is GREAT!!!!!! Overall this was the most excited day of my life and the best vacation EVER! Everyone is getting together for drinks tonight (at home) to talk about it and we all want to go back for an annual trip =)

Hair and Makeup My friend (Groomsmen wife) did our hair and makeup. She did a phenomenal job and was great! It’s nice to have someone on site, because she touched me up later and the windy beach shots, before we made our entrance. But I did see the resort do a bride’s hair two days before and it was beautiful. She just said…BRING PICTURES! Ceremony Judge – C- Well I was late…(what bride isn’t). But because of this we lost our English speaking judge and had a fill in, who is a civil judge and doesn’t perform weddings. He was nervous and horrible (to be generous). Karla our WC was the translator but even she as nervous and it just didn’t go smoothly. They married us without the ring ceremony. We laughed about it then but looking back…it probably looked horrible to an outsider. Luckily everyone just laughed and made the best of it. I wasn’t about to let it ruin our wedding. Ceremony Location – A The chapel was BEAUTIFUL. The white tulle and flowers were perfect. It was hot, but let’s face it…it was May 1st in Mexico. They really did a nice job with the chapel. Some people stood to get better pictures, but there were extra seats for those who didn’t fit in the rows. But we fit and it was GREAT! Flowers – A The flowers at the chapel, my bouquet, the girls bouquets, corsages, and buttonholes were done by the resort and they were beautiful. I went with Gerbera Daisies and orange/white roses, to tie in the boys white rose buttonholes. The corsages where pink gerbera daisies with orange roses. My Bouquet My Sister’s Bouquet (Matron of Honor) I paid to have hers bigger than the other 3 girls to stand out – it was $35 and the girls were $15 each. Centerpieces – A We went with Maya Diseno Floral who are contracted with the hotel for the centerpieces and they were PERFECT! We had ten tables and they were delivered while we were talking our pictures, so they were nice and fresh. Very easy to deal with and provided examples and prototypes before we went to contract. Very easy!!

Hi everyone, I am married for 11 days now and I feel like the luckiest woman alive. I have an amazing husband, wonderful family and awesome group of friends. Of 70 people, not one had a bad time. We had a blast and it was worth every penny. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Here is my review of the Iberostar Paraiso Del Mar – Riviera Maya, Mexico (April 26th – May 3rd) Travel Agent – A+++++ Erin Finley with Top Shelf Travel in Baldwin New York. Excellent. Not only did everyone get a huge package with a welcome letter, it explained step by step what needed to be done and provided vendors for shuttles to the airport from home. The company she booked with was Travel Impressions and they had the CHEAPEST rates that Apple and Go-Go couldn’t match. It was great. We got a kick back for every 15 rooms booked. Great Job. Airport Transfer Transportation - American Express C – Okay so wasn’t ideal to start off our vacation…First they try and pack our luggage and us in a 10 person (with 2 people already in the van)…that didn’t work. Then they unpack and put us in a separate van with the luggage that barely fit. We had bags everywhere. And on the way to the resort (which is 20 minutes away) the van starts to breakdown and the driver pulls off on the side of the road to wait for 10 minutes for back up that never arrives and proceeds to finish the last 5 minutes of the trip and gets us to the hotel. UGH. Pain in the BUTT!!!! But we got there safe and that’s all that matters. Hotel – A OMG. We love the Iberostar chain, but we REALLY love this resort. It was so clean, the service is unreal…so nice and on top of everything. They never stop working. Room service, the maid, concierge…everything was great. We highly recommend the Del Mar (especially for large groups – they were very accommodating). The buffets were different every night but the same in other areas…the Ala Carte restaurants were yummy – Japanese was awesome, so was the Mediterranean. Mexican not so much. We did a lot of buffet dinners because everyday new people were coming in and we would eat with them. Breakfast was my favorite. The pool was awesome. It wrapped around the whole place, just like a big, long, lazy river pool. The lobby was beautiful and open. The check in was so easy and they upgraded us right away to ocean front. My sister was in the presidential suite which was amazing. It was two bedrooms, 2 ½ bath, 2 walk in closets, kitchen, dining room/living room combo, bar area and Jacuzzi on the balcony that stretched the entire length of the rooms. She got it for us girls to get ready in, plus she had the baby and it was so much easier with feeding her and such. Wedding Coordinator – B Karla was great. She met us on the day we arrived and we set up an appointment for the next day. She went over the wedding details and we gave her two big duffle bags of items for the ceremony and the reception. For the most part, things were placed and done correctly. She failed to give out the bubbles and wedding program fans, or even put them in a central location for all to grab (they were on a table off to the side). We made 70 program fans and we came home with about 40. =( But it’s nothing in the grand scheme of things. There were also some botch ups with the trolley and transportation to the cocktail hour/reception which was on the other side of the resort. But eventually everyone got there. I wasn’t told about it until the next day. But after the reception everyone forgot about the trolley. Rehearsal and Dinner – A We had the rehearsal in the chapel after a wedding was done, so it was decorated. Their wedding location was changed due to high winds on the beach so that delayed us about 30 minutes, but we were outside taking pictures in the gazebo area. The rehearsal walk through was helpful because the guys came in a separate door than the girls and came together before walking down the aisle. Plus it’s nice to get the order down. I was more nervous at the rehearsal than the wedding day – which was weird. My parents and us His parents and us Dinner was at the Japanese restaurant and it was AMAZING. Everyone found something and it was Hibachi style. We had (2) private tables and we gave out gifts there and a quick speech. It was very yummy and fun. Starfish in rice

Thanks Ladies - it really was a great day and all will be okay. I was super organized which made things eaiser. That helps Karla or your WC too! As long as you know that once you are down there, what will be, will be!!! Your day will be the perfect day and everything you dreamed.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mags Hi!!! Congrats for your wedding!!! Can I ask you how much you paid for Claudia Rodrigez photos? Did you have to pay 300$ to the resort as you haven't use the photographer of the resort? I can't wait to read your reveiw and see more pics! Also, is one of you knows if the photographers at the Del Mal does nice pictures Thanks!!! Mags Mags - Thank you! We did pay the $300 fee to the Photoshop for using the outside photographer. It was completely worth it, because the hotel is just not good. They don't organize, just snap and shoot. But if pictures aren't a big deal to you and your FI, then go for it. Pictures were a HUGE deal to us, as we will have them the rest of your lives. We went with the 8 hours package and Fine Arts album. We also used her videographer. Golden Photo Package = $3,350 Special Video Package = $1,100 Fine Arts Album = $650

Thanks ladies...it definitely feels good to be back...but I miss the relaxation down there. Karen and Diana - glad you survived your bachelorette parties, this is crunch time now =) Karen - Sorry about your hair, but I agree with Diana, the resorts do a great job. I saw another bride two days before our wedding and her hair came out very nice. Just bring pictures of all angles if you can. Working on my review with pics....but nothing professional...those are 4-6 weeks.