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also if you girls ever decide you want to do a boudoir session, and want to only pay $75 and don't have a problem driving 45-1 hour to cornwall, I can give you the photographer's info, she did an amazing job on mine on Wednesday, so excited to get the pics. I also was able to do my hair and make up down there for $75 and she did a stunning job, made me look like a model!!!

Thanks so much for the great idea, and thanks for the idea of using a ziplock bagy, great ideas!!!! Great job! are you giving the hang over kit to each person, or 1 per couple?

I love all the ideas, thanks girls! as I am going to buy all the kids bags (I only have 2 boys) But I didn't have any ideas,thank you so much!!

thanks so much for sharing, it's so cute an amazing, I must say I'm stealing your idea. Thank you again!!! :)

Dollarama and Canadian tire ( lots of girls already said that) Good luck!! Jules, I hope it all workes out in the end for you guys, and you get what you want. I am sorry you have to going through the stress

For the girls who haven't ordered them yet, and live in Canada, Ardine is having a great deal 2 for $15, some of them have it for 2/10$ they also have lots of colour options! Good luck (I just added them to my BM's bags)

OMG Michele, your puppys are sooo cute!!!! they must definitely keep you guys warm on cold nights. ShotNsweet, they are sooo cute!!!!!They look they suck up to mommy a lot . Aww you guys make me want have a dog again!!! but it wouldn't be fair in apartment, especially with 4 cats lol. We will have to wait.

Hopefully, I wont stop stressing untill I get it on paper, which I still haven't. Thanks so much, I'll keep you posted Hows everything going with you and the planning?

Erin,Your centerpieces are to die for, I will definitely be stealing your idea's for the AHR like Michele. I am so sorry it has to be so late minute. I hope it works out for you guys and she'll be able to go. Like everyone said, the mother will be resented by the daughter... hopefully that'll change her mind. Keep us posted!! have my finger's crossed for the 3 of you. Court sucks here too, sucks everyone!! hopefully you or anyone else wont have to deal with it again.

Great looking bags, I haven't seen those!!! but I bought my through vista print (with logo 5.50$ each) My great find for there were the travel mugs (even tho I am missing 10 mugs and can't find anymore.. still looking around lucky I live in Montreal where we must have over 100 stores)

Quote: Originally Posted by DawnBuckley Hi Ladies! Haven't been on here for a while... went to the Embassy yesterday to have Glenis do our papers. It went so smoothly and quickly. We were there less than 30 minutes. Now I just have to email the papers to our travel agent to send to Carolina. I am sorry to hear that so many of you are having problems with where to send the papers to. I live close to Ottawa so was able to go directly to Glenis at the embassy vs. a notary. Also, our travel agent is a wedding planner who translated the documents for us. Caribbean lover, I hope the room situation works out for you. That's just ridiculous that they won't upgrade you since you paid for that room originally. Like you need this stress. How is everyone doing with decor? I had originally hoped to have turquoise as the main colour for the wedding but had to switch to cobalt, turquoise and green (sea glass theme now) The bridesmaids are in cobalt and I ordered a dress for my niece (jr bridesmaid) in the three colours. It arrived within a week and cost me less than $50 US with delivery from JC Penney. So exciting!!! Its really cute. I will have to post pictures. Fill me in on decor plans gals... can you believe we only have a little over a month! Yahoo!! Dawn We found out that Tour Mount Royal doesn't buy deluxe packages, so they made a huge mistake by writing 'deluxe' when in fact it wasd junior suite. So this whole time (supposely)TMR was trying to buy a deluxe package. Supposedly they found one today and now they are just getting all the paper worked settled with, and we will get a new invoice. I am not sure just how much to trust Itravel right now as we said if we finally didn't get an answer today we were complaining to the wrong full business department of the gov. So are they trying to get a few extra days, or are they being honest about the room situation. I just don't know what to believe. Can I elope from my destination wedding? lol I wish I could sometimes. It's amazing living near a consulate for DR, me too i wasn't even in their office for a half hour. I got my single status notarized by the city hall for $5. and legal and translated by the consulate of Montreal. I sent it to Carolina, along with the wedding form (with our flight time, how many guest, and some of our info with our fathers name, did you all send that to her too?) She said thank you very much for sending to me.. but yet she never told me she needed it I just sent it anyway! Thank god I did. Decor: I decided the only thing I am doing, is bring centerpieces and glass seashell candle holders to go around the flower centerpiece. For the chair shash I'll just see what they have as my colours are aqua and baby yellow. I'm doing the private beach party after dinner, Carolina said it gets decorated with ticki torche and all, so i wont need any decor for that. The ceremony, from all the pictures, it looks perfect don't really need to decorate for that, looks like Carolina does a great job what do you plan on doing for decor?

Hey guys!! So I did my boudoir session yesterday, it was so much fun. All I can say is,to bad it was only a half hour session.. I can't imagine what we could have done with a lot more time. My make up and hair turn out to dye for!!!! I wasn't nervous at all when I finally met the photographer (I had 1 glass of wine and 1 shot before meeting up with her, so I was totally relaxed, definitely helped I would suggest going with out any!) All the lingerie turned out to be perfect, I should have bought just a nice push up bra to have a shot like that also(would have been real sexy) The poses were real basic, the typical once you see in photos. I did one with laying on the bed legs in the air,crossed on the ankles, I just looked straight while she was behind taking a pic, I regret not looking back at her, as it would have been a nice pic to see my face, but again I haven't seen them so I am sure she would have ask me to look at her if she felt it was needed. I am very excited to get the pics in the mail next week. I'll keep you all posted on that and post a little teaser. I am so sorry about your court date Michele, especially since it was pushed back, instead of getting it over with you have to continue waiting, the annoying and stressful part. Pls keep us posted on how it goes. Erin, I am so you also have to go to court, especially for a reason like that. Why do people have to make things so diffuclt!!! why wouldn't she want his daughter to see her father get married. So messed up, sorry you guys even have to go through such stress. Pls let us know how it goes and if his daughter can go! Shortnsweet, OMG I am so sorry you and your poor dog and to go through that, I am so happy to hear his ok though. Aww my heart goes out to you so much, that must have been so scary. I can relate in a lot of ways with my dog that had passed away. Thank you for the comment on my cake topper!! not as nice as Erins lol with the dog in it, soo cute! I think the whole room thing is being fix, they called the FI and said they found a deluxe room, they booked in, now they are just get the paper work together to send us the new invoice,I will see.. I am not sure how much to trust them. For now I'll consider it good news!! :) once I get the new invoice I'll be completely relieved. But I also called Air Transit, the plan we are flying with, to upgrade to get more luggage allowance, and they said my flight # doesn't exists!!! OMG... what next.. oh yes I bought my docking system.. worked great 3 times, no it doesn't work anymore. Can I elope from my destination wedding?!? lol I wish I could sometimes. Isn't it crazy the amount of money Quebec charges to change names, don't worry your not alone, no one else has ever heard to have to pay to change their names. Stupid Quebec and their weird laws. For instance, our high school is up to grade 11 and you start highschool in grade 7!

lol yes I am (got it from my mom) but also since I haven't beeen able to work for over 2 years, money is tight so I try to find the best deals!

Quote: Originally Posted by ewok Got my China dress today. A bit disappointed since it's at least an inch too big, and the front is not exactly looking how it should. Can't really send it back since I'm a month out. The front issue DBF could easily fix, but not the rest. Anyone knows a good seamstress in the area? French or English is not a problem, general Montreal area. Thanks girls! (feeling a bit down tonight...) Aww me too I am so sorry your dress didn't come out. I have the seamstress who took in my size 12 dress to a 4, and she did an amazing job and it was under $100. Do you mind it's in the west island? she works real fast too lol. I can pm you her # and name and you can give her a call to arrange an appointment. Just let me know.

Thanks so much for your supportive and kind words. It maybe could be an option to change hotels for the second week. But I mean the room thing isn't a big enough reason to go through all the hassle to change hotels. But in the end I guess what is causing more of a hassle, trying to get an upgrade or change hotels. I guess it will be something I look into.. thanks so much for the suggestion. I need any many as possible! Hey Shotnsweet, where've you been lol! How's the planning going along? I think about you every time I think about how I need a new pair of shoes.. .Miami!!! lol

Quote: Originally Posted by echo2_62 Oh yes and of all strange things - FI's request was that as soon as we finish the ceremony that we jump out of the gazebo and into the ocean!!! Nevermind that it would basically ruin my chances for wearing my dress the rest of the night and my hair would be shot etc.!!!! So I think we're definitely going to be doing that at some point for pictures. Our friends are cool enough that they'd probably get back into the same clothes they wear for the ceremony just so we could do photos and have it pretend to still be the wedding day!! Tracy - most pubs will be open and serving liquor by 11am so as long as you can find one that's really close to your photog. studio/location and you don't mind chugging a little bit then you'll totally be able to get a few drinks down!! And I'm sorry to hear you're still having troubles with your room booking. Here's my perspective - if SOMEONE will admit to making the mistake when booking then that's step 1. If all the regular deluxe suites are booked now there isn't too much you can do about that so you have two options. First, get upgraded to an even better room (maybe wishful thinking, given how stubborn they are being) or at the least get a refund back for the extra money you paid for the better suite but didn't get. FI and I had considered getting an upgraded room but we figured that since we'll be out of our room so often, whether its in town or just out at the pool or on the beach, that it's not the size of the room that matters so much as whether or not we still have everything we want in it. Shower big enough for two - check. Full room service anytime of day/night - check. Restocked bar if we decide to hide out for two (or five) days - check. A nice BIG king size bed - check. So while I absolutely agree that you deserve what you paid for... and you should see it through as much as possible... the other way to look at it is just whether you have your own private space with all the benefits you want. You'll be a MRS and that's what will matter, not the size of your room, when it comes to just the two of you. OMG and there's not a chance at all that I would be allowed to hyphenate my name either!! It would just be WAY too long for me at that point anyways, but I don't want the complications for our kids either because I know it was always confusing at school when I was growing up. Maybe it was just so much less common then than it would be now. That's going to be amazing, jumping in the ocean right after you say 'I Do' those pictures will be stunning. Well that's just it, we paid the extra money to have extra things, like king size bed, a hydro message shower that will fit the two of us (the Junior suite that we are currently booked for doesn't have these things) I know the junior suite is a beautiful room (but it's an open concept room with the bath tub and sinks in the bedroom.. I didn't want that so I made sure to pay for the extra) I told them to just give us our money back for the difference of the rooms and we will just settle for something we didn't want (and we would call consumer's report on CTV news) but they begged for another business day to try and get TMR to pay the upgrade to the romance suite now (since the deluxe is sold out, i have a feeling they are trying to delay us untill all the upgraded rooms are booked, this way it'd be out of their hands) I am making the FI put his foot down tomorrow (he wont let me finish something I originally started) and saying you either give us an answer now about the upgrade, or will well go on to Plan B (keep our junior suite and sue them and get CTV involved!) I know we wont be in our rooms a lot (the first week) with guest.. but the second week we did plan on spending enough time in the room (hehehe) it's not even the point, I don't care about the size(the were petty much the same size, just upgraded bathroom, extra t.v, swim up pool) it's the whole prinicple to me, that I paid for extra I should get extra!! I am so bloody stubborn, I wont let this go. So now I am waiting again untill tomorrow to see what kind of answers I get.. all while I am going for my boudoir session tomorrow!! FI will not allow me to hyphenate our child's name either.. altho I agree with you it'd get to long and complecated for the kid. Jokeing I told Mike if we were to stay in MTL the kid would get my name as it's french and FI it's scottish, but if we moved the child could get his name as we would live somewhere english lol. Quote: Originally Posted by hoyt75 Thanks ladies... I'll try showing FI some pics to see if that convinces him to do a TTD. I'm so glad I found another bride using Sascha! I'm exctatic to use him! When is your wedding and what resort are you going to? Tracy - Their are a couple small bars in Cornwall that you can stop at. I use to live on the border and we would go to Cornwall all the time to go drinking as kids! They're not fantastic, but it's still a drink! Good luck with convincing the FI for TTD. Let us know how it goes and what you guys decide! I grew up in cornwall, but as a child (never need bars lol) what a small world!! I am so glad to here that they open around 11am I should have just enough time to chug a few glasses of wine lol. in MTL bars open at 8am and close at 3am, but I knew we were the only province that were crazy enough to do something like that. (Thanks Meghan as well Quote: Originally Posted by jerseykitten Wow - I go out for a couple of hours and so much to catch up on! Tracy - did you find out about your room yet? I hope it all works out. and drink away - I'd bet not many people do the BD pics totally sober - I'm a total ham and love getting my picture taken but I think I'd need a drink to do that kind of picture! I don't remember how i got FI to do the TTD -he's been good with letting me do whatever I want - he has seen the pictures and how beautiful they are - he's a little vain so we've been hitting the gym really hard these days too. I am actually going to change my name - which at my age is going to be a pain in the a$$, but it's one of the things I am a traditionalist in. FI didn't even care whether I did or not... but I want to be Mrs. FI... and in non-wedding related news - my ear has been bothering me for I don't know, 3 weeks...so I had my diet dr look at it - he gave me a decongestant...on Saturday I went to a walk in clinic because, along with the earache, I KNEW I had a UTI (we all know when that's going on) and the dr gave me an antibiotic and said my ear looked red...yesterday at the gym I had to stop what the trainer had me doing because i was so dizzy/nauseous and my ear hurt so much even to chew, yawn, talk,swallow and I can't sleep on that side now...so today I went to FI's doctor...I have a double ear infection, swollen glands, sinus infection...seriously - I have to fly in 7 weeks! Somebody better fix my ears! she was really nice - gave me a new antibiotic, nasal spray...if it's not gone in a week i have to go back...and I need to take a break from the gym...SIGH.... And while I'm there the new job is calling trying to have me come in for my drug screen today - i had to tell them no - I'll go tomorrow And thursday is court for my car accident! Remember when I thought I'd have some free time before the wedding? HA! That was a vent - thank you! like I was saying, the FI gave them yet another day to try and sort things out wih TMR. He promised not to come home tomorrow if he doesn't have a final answer from them lol. Hopefully tomorrow!!! Me too, the FI has been just going along with everything I wanted. We're so lucky in the sense!! Aww, that'll be nice to have his last name (I did too, but not for $2000) It's a lot of work to change your name, with all the paper work? you'll also have to change your passport I guess? Aww, I suffer from ear infections all my life,so I totally feel your pain. I really hope the new meds work this week, and you don't have to go back to the docs. I totally know what you mean with the flying. Even on a good week with my ears, the totally hurt and they only pop about 3 days after I land. Plus with the crohn's I get crazy flare ups for 2 days (going there and coming back) I hate flying, but I love going down south what total contradiction! Keep us posted on how your feeling!! Well I know you've been doing great with the gym and with your trainer. SO I am sure it wont totally kill to take a week off. And can do some butt crunch while sitting down, or walking to the bathroom! lol (Sorry for a lot of 'totally's I never say that word and for a lot of mistakes in my spelling today lol )

Quote: Originally Posted by taraappl I had to laugh about your MOH.... I actually have the same situation going on too. We have a single guy and a single girl that have never met before and they are sharing a room to save on costs. They however both would consider themselves 'slutes' and we have no doubt in our minds that they'll end up hooking up. In fact, I bet the first night they'll get drunk and end up in the same bed..... we'll find out! Stay tuned and I'll let you know what happens. :smile: lol that's too funny, I can't wait to see what happens. If they are anything like my BM they will definitely end up in the same bed the firt night Me too my BM and friend had never met each other before either until the day we all got together o book their trip! lol too funny!! Quote: Originally Posted by taraappl Tracy- Holy cow! I would be freaking out about the room thing if I were you too! I'm so sorry you have to go through this...... I hope it all gets straightened out for you and you dont have to go through too much more. Hang in there Thanks so much for your kind supportive words. We should have a def answer by this afternoon on what's happening, if someone will pay for our upgrade.

Quote: Originally Posted by ebredhawk tracy - when is your BD shoot? something tells me you either had it last weekend or it's coming up this week maybe? It's tomorrow!!!! I am so bloody nervous. and my session is a 11:30 Will I look like an alcoholic if I have a few glasses of wine before that? lol I hope not I'll need it!!!! I'm hoping I can find a bar in cornwall(little small town in Ontario) open that early! I will def let you all know how it goes when I get back home!

LOL it's was the way to go. Oh and showing him pictures totally help convince him that this shots would be the best out of all of them. Who doesn't want to jump in the ocean fully clothes. Or what Husband wouldn't want to lay on the beach all sexy like with their new wife! lol LOL that'd be sooooooo funny if all you girls had the same dress for TTD. I must vent a little bit. I'll try and make the story as short as possible. I am just so angry and I can't help but take it out on the FI so now we are arguing!! I booked my package on Itravel for the trip. We booked for 1 week on the royal section for the deluxe suite (which is an upgrade to the deluxe junior suite) We just had to put a deposit and the remaining balance was to be taken off our credit card Feb 7 (Last Tuesday) A couple of weeks after booking our trip, we decided to add an extra week to our package to make it 2 weeks to have a honeymoon. So I called Itravel and spoke with an agent name Vikas. He had to call TMR (the operator we have our package with)to be sure they had room for the second week, I get a call back saying there is room but some changes would be made. Instead of flying with AC at 12pm we would fly with Air tansit at 7am but we would still have the same room ,deluxe suite. I said that was fine, as I truly wanted the second week, and as long as I had the same room type (the room we paid extra for, from the 1st week) He assured me everything would stay the same ,room wise. I said ok. Last Sunday, he calls me and ask me if it was ok to go ahead and pay the remaining balance a day early,to get the invoice.. this way it'd be taken care of and out of the way. We didn't have a problem with that, and he said I'd have my new invoice stating all the info. Perfect! I wake up Monday to my new invoice. I read through it.. and guess what room type we were booked for, the Deluxe junior suite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (even tho we paid deluxe suite price at the time) so now we've been fighting with them (even tho we have our original invoice with deluxe suite) to get our room we paid for. But they are fighting with TMR to pay for our upgrade, TMR wont budge. SO now it's up to Itravel, but the don't seem to want to do anything about it either. And now guess what... what Deluxe suites are all booked up (and we are not one of them) I'm at a lost of words, and I don't know what do to besides take both parties to court (which is a huge hassle, and I am not sure with my disease I could even handle the stress of court) *Cry* sorry for the long vent.

Quote: Originally Posted by sasse75 I have a good one for everyone when it comes to changing your name.....I don't have to......cause we have the same last name!!!!!! I guess I consider myself lucky, FI and I can't have this argument about if I change my name. In Quebec you keep your name and if you want to change it to your husband's last name you have to pay 2000$ and we both agree that kind of money to change a name is way to much (that's close to having another trip down south) but if we ever moved out of Quebec I automatically get his last name. LOL that's sooo funny.. how did you guys mange meeting each other and have the same last name? Quote: Originally Posted by jerseykitten I'm wearing actual sandals for the wedding - I had my dress ordered with me standing barefoot to make sure it wouldn't be too long or need a hem These are my shoes I wanted the barefoot sandals for the TTD pictures - i can wear them alone or with flipflops till we get to the water. i just thought they'd be a little added sexy. And we have many vistaprint mugs - you would not even believe what i've ordered from that place - I just ordered my AHR invitations from there - made from the 'free" post cards. i'm hoping if I keep ordering I'll have enough tshirts for my OOT bags! I love your shoes. And now that you told me exactly how your using the bare feet ones, I want a pair lol!!!! but I wont The are going to look adorable, especially with the TTD. I can't wait to see your pics. LOL your so cute/funny about ordering all the tshirts. I was thinking of doing that but didn't think I'd have enough patience's lol. Good for you for being able to get so many.. crossing my fingers for you,you get enough for the OOT bags. Quote: Originally Posted by hoyt75 How did you girls convince your FI into doing a TTD? Mine's totally not for it, and I would love to do this. Sounds like everyone who didn't do one really regrets it later... Who is everyone using as their photographer? We've booked Sascha Gluck, I feel in love with his photos and he was in our price range. I didn't ask the FI to do the TTD, I told him we were doing it lol. He agreed, to have a happy bride. I also think he knows how important pictures are to me. And to be able to have the option to do this kind of session, I think he was afraid to said no lol!!!! besides most shots are of us brides and very few of the groom. We're getting married in Punta Cana so different people then you. But we are using HCD his name is Arnaud. I have him on facebook and everyday he has a different wedding at a different resort.. seems like the pics get better each day. totally excited to work with him!! Tara, I am so happy your MOH has booked her flight. Next up her room and dress, and she'll be set to go for your wedding. Like meghan said try not stress to much over her and how she'll be at the resort. I am sure she'll also meet other guest and wont feel so alone. My spacy BM is going alone.. but she loves drinking.. and she can be a real 'slute' and she'll admit it herself (I am not talking behind her back here lol) so I am a little worried of her making a fool of herself, or of me. But I decided not to worry about it. She has a little bit of sense, hopefully she'll use it. Besides I bunked her with another single person (a guy) but the are each others type so hopefully he'll keep her in check lol (they did it this way so neither of them had to pay double occupancy) Meghan, lol good advice.. have a bottle of alcohol to take a shoot to deal with her calls. I should do that lol.

oh well I will definitely not be alone while cleaning my dress in the shower that both of us got dirty lol!!!!!!1 I was going to get that dress from sears but found one off the rack a little bit cheaper. You girls will definitely have to post pics of the dress!!!! Your so lucky you have photographer friends Meghan, I am sure you'll get loads of beautiful pictures. Smart thinking with the whole dress thing and TTD!!

it's so true! I read this whole thread and a lot of it didn't really mean anything. Maybe I should take some time and and re read the whole thing since I am so close to leaving and I am thinking about everything now!! aww your so lucky, when I bought my pc I had the choice for the lap top or desk top and the FI said to go with the desk top as I like to down load a lot. But I regret it now, I could be sitting on the couch right now!! lol. I must vent a little bit. I'll try and make the story as short as possible. I am just so angry and I can't help but take it out on the FI so now we are arguing!! I booked my package on Itravel for the trip. We booked for 1 week on the royal section for the deluxe suite (which is an upgrade to the deluxe junior suite) We just had to put a deposit and the remaining balance was to be taken off our credit card Feb 7 (Last Tuesday) A couple of weeks after booking our trip, we decided to add an extra week to our package to make it 2 weeks to have a honeymoon. So I called Itravel and spoke with an agent name Vikas. He had to call TMR (the operator we have our package with)to be sure they had room for the second week, I get a call back saying there is room but some changes would be made. Instead of flying with AC at 12pm we would fly with Air tansit at 7am but we would still have the same room ,deluxe suite. I said that was fine, as I truly wanted the second week, and as long as I had the same room type (the room we paid extra for, from the 1st week) He assured me everything would stay the same ,room wise. I said ok. Last Sunday, he calls me and ask me if it was ok to go ahead and pay the remaining balance a day early,to get the invoice.. this way it'd be taken care of and out of the way. We didn't have a problem with that, and he said I'd have my new invoice stating all the info. Perfect! I wake up Monday to my new invoice. I read through it.. and guess what room type we were booked for, the Deluxe junior suite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (even tho we paid deluxe suite price at the time) so now we've been fighting with them (even tho we have our original invoice with deluxe suite) to get our room we paid for. But they are fighting with TMR to pay for our upgrade, TMR wont budge. SO now it's up to Itravel, but the don't seem to want to do anything about it either. And now guess what... what Deluxe suites are all booked up (and we are not one of them) I'm at a lost of words, and I don't know what do to besides take both parties to court (which is a huge hassle, and I am not sure with my disease I could even handle the stress of court) *Cry* sorry for the long vent.

Yes, I am paying $60 for the day pass for my photographer. if your having your photogrpher there the whole day and night you'll need to pay another $60 for the evening pass. $120 US for 1 entire day 9am-6pm 1 day pass, 6pm-2am 1 evening pass. Thank you again for going through all the pages sungoddess much appreciation!! :)

Michele, I love the barefoot sandals. I was considering this, 1 question.. aren't you afraid the sand will be to hot?! I know it's why I didn't buy it.. as a lot of times when down south I need my flip flops to walk in the sand to get to my chair cause it's too hot. I feel in love with me dress when we originally planned an in town churching wedding. I'm keeping this one for my ceremony, but will change into a lighter dress.. I will use this dress for the TTD. We are having a reception in July for family and close friends who could attend. So I didn't want to ruin it for that. Plus it was enough money I didn't want to ruin it. But I did hear, once your done your session to go right to your room, in the shower (with the dress on) and then hang dry it for the rest of your stay.. should be good as new! (definitely depends on the material but my 'church' dress wouldn't last through the salt water) Sounds like you have an amazing photographer, your so lucky you'll have all those pictures. I will add cameras to the dinner tables and get guest to take our evening photo's as my photographer is there just for the ceremony.

Michele, I love all the styles you've picked out, you'll definitely have to let us know which one you pick!! I'm the same way with the hair (I can't do anything with it) What a great idea, I wont take my hair apart when the wedding is over, and hopefully it'll be good to go for the next day (TTD) Thanks for the great idea!!! Erin, I love your hair style, and the hair pieces escpecially!!! It's going to look stunning!!! Aww your so lucky you don't have to worry about your hair or make-up as I am sure you trust her. I on the other hand have no idea how the resort spa is for hair. And if they'll be able to do what I want. I am so glad I am doing a TTD, What another amazing idea.. to get in video taped. I'll so get someone to use my video camera to do that. (Vidergrapher isn't in our budged ) Me too, I think this will be the funniest photo shoot ever!!!! Tara, Are you flying in your own photographer?