Through my research I learned that staying at an A.I did not mean that you got a private reception included in the cost of your wedding... I do agree that they should charge you a fee because they will have to do some extra preparations which they do not normal do for all of their A.I guest. Â For my wedding we opted not to have it at an A.I for this reason and because we are having guest from JA attend which will not be staying at the resort. If you are already booked at the hotel you can just ask for a discount the worst that they can do is object. Â Good Luck,