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Quote: Originally Posted by kate.com Oh and we skipped the champagne and did this drink. Another option if they are offering champagne. That saved us some money and it wasn't missed. Thanks. Good suggestion. We had thought about maybe buying the men's shirts because they are only $20 at Costco. This way they would only have to buy the pants and flip flops. I will check out Men's warehouse too. I am still deciding between white flowers (calililies) and bright orange flowers. I will ask the resort if they have a signature drink. That would be so cool!

Quote: Originally Posted by kate.com I said the same thing! Harder than finding your dress for sure. But anything off white/ivory should work just fine:) Try not to get too wrapped up in it bc you'll drive yourself mad. OH, and I would keep goom/groomsmen in same color about. They'll be in more pics together than you will be, does that make sense? Totally! Yeah! I think my decision is made. I'm so happy! On a comletely different note (completely!!), what is that blue drink that you are drinking in your photos? It is so pretty! I would love to have a signature drink...though not sure if my resort does that or not.

Quote: Originally Posted by kate.com No, that will be perfect. If you want to see how it looks you can look at the bottom of this post at my pro pics. Thank you so much!! Looking at your photos really helps! I was trying to do a search online for something similar, but you aren't kidding, these are the same colors! I'm even doing a turquoise for the BMs...ha! The GM attire looks exactly how I envision mine. My FI however, will probably wear the same shirt as the GM but with a suit. He also will not wear a tie. But other than that, your photos really give me a good idea. I feel much better now.

I just thought of another option... the FI could wear an ivory shirt and the GMs wear the creme shirts... I don't know!!! This is harder than finding my gown Please be honest!

Hi all, I have an Ivory dress and I was going to have FI and the Groom's men wear Ivory shirts (Tommy Bahama style). FI would wear a tan suit over the shirt and the GM would wear tan pants. I found the perfect shirt for them to wear (not Tommy Bahama, but same material and look for $100 less!) but it is more of an off white or "cream" color. Is that a bad option? Does it need to be closer to my color? I'm so bad with picking out the colors!!! Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

Hi All, I noticed on facebook that Rod had posted a message saying that the resort reads all of the reviews and takes them very seriously. So I went ahead and sent him a message on FB inquiring about the privacy complaints for the wedding location. Here is his response: They're working extremely hard to re-organize the layout of the beach facilities so we have a private area. I would not worry honestly, the weddings I have seen on property were incredible and we've have very positive feedback! Anyhow, for all that it is worth, I hope he is right!

Has anyone decided where they will have the cocktail hour? I really want to see photos too! I wonder if Ana has any new photos.

I know it's up to me and I can do whatever I want since it is my day...but honest opinion, do you think it seems weird to use IZ "somewhere over the rainbow" for the BM's when they walk down and then something like Enya "only time" for when I walk down? I have been torn between those two songs. They are COMPLETELY different. I want the songs to flow nicely. Just looking for thoughts on how the song choices should flow with eachother.

Are the songs that are played during all parts of ceremony usually instrumentals?

We are getting married at Dreams RC. I did a site visit and thought the resort was beautiful. Everything was so new and modern. We did walk down to Paradisus also. Just from the outside, Dreams seemed a little nicer but probably only because it was new. However, it is a pretty small resort. I think Paradisus is bigger. Though, if everyone books early, that might be kind of fun to know about 1/4 of the guests. I would just make sure they book early if you do go with Dreams RC. Good luck in your choice.

Quote: Originally Posted by thope Hey SD, My wedding is in Riviera Maya at Excellence, I'm getting married at 5pm to hopefully catch some great sunset photos... this time was suggested by the resort coordinator for the pix...I'm doing the gazebo though cant help w the sand. That's so weird because my wedding coordinator at Dreams Riviera Cancun told me to schedule it for 6pm. I had originally thought 5:30 but figured the coordinator should know. I wonder why there is such a discrepancy in their opinions. I was originally a little worried about that time, but someone posted information from a photographer and it says to allow 55 - 65 mins prior to sunset. I don't know what to do! My photographer thinks 5:30, but she is from the states so I would rather go with what the locals think.

I have a question for those getting married in Riviera Maya, Mexico. What time are you having your ceremony at? I think I read that the sun sets at 7:15. Also, does anyone know if the sand is too hot in May to walk down barefoot? We are thinking of having our ceremony on the sand and I don't want to deal with what kind of shoes to wear. I am hoping to go barefoot for the ceremony and then buy shoes for the reception. Anyone else doing this?

Hi all, I thought I would start a thread for those brides getting married in May that may have some of the same questions. I know I have a lot of questions. Here are a couple that I have been thinking about: 1. I believe the sun sets at around 7:15. What time is everyone else planning on having the ceremony? I've posted this question on another thread and received a good general rule of thumb response, but thought I would see what everyone is doing. 2. Is anyone planning on going barefoot in the sand? I'm wondering if the sand is hot during this time of year... Lastly, I thought I would provide a status update. This is a good way to keep everyone in check and make sure we aren't forgetting anything. 1. Gown ordered - Should be arriving early Feb 2. BM dresses ordered - should be arriving in early March 3. Started working with a vendor on the invitations - I think we plan to send them out the last week in Feb. 4. Ordered my OOT bags (but still need to find favors to fill them with) 5. Still deciding on FI and GM attire (but I have a general idea of what we want) 6. Still deciding on centerpieces, cake, bouquets, and music options 7. Haven't even looked at shoes yet. 6. Website created, save the dates sent out, resort picked (all in August) 7. 32 people booked so far 8. Photographer booked

Quote: Originally Posted by anacgarcia I found this helpful maps: Mapas del Caribe Mexicano hope they help.. This is a good link. Does anyone know how we can print these out and use them? I would like to include 2 of them in my OOTO bag. Mapas del Caribe Mexicano, Cancun, Tulum, Cozumel, Riviera Maya, Playa del Carmen

Quote: Originally Posted by soon2BMrs.Prince I got a message from Ana today regarding the kids policy for the reception. It is as follows: 0 to 3 year old free 3 to 12 year old 50 % as an adult 12 years to up as an adult. Thanks for asking this! I didn't even think about it. Good to know!

Quote: Originally Posted by Laura22610 So, I got an email back from Ana today and I learned a few new things... I had asked her about the sound system that you could play your ipod in and how much it would cost for the reception. She said that for the reception it would be $200 (taxes included) and then $35/hour for the technician. So, $305 total plus the $180 for the reception. Yikes!! So, I had emailed a couple of DJ's that I saw on here...DJ Mania and DJ Doremixx. The first emailed me back and said that I could get prices from Ana. The second told me that it would be $650 for 1-4 hours (which includes all the music stuff plus a few fun extras). I am definitely going to go with this. I was starting to really stress about the music thing and to have someone totally handle it for an extra $150...sealed the deal for me I can give him a playlist if I want and he will come meet with me at the resort a couple days before the wedding if I want, which I thought was nice! Second, she sent me a photo of a beach ceremony set-up. I am not sure which "location" this is... I also asked her about a rehearsal and rehearsal dinner and I wasn't really too happy with her response to this. She told me that since you can't make reservations at the restaurants, we would just have to show up to a restaurant at 6pm and get tables near each other. Hmm...I would think that they could be a little more accommodating when you are having your wedding there and bringing guests to the resort. She didn't offer any other options either. I had also asked her about flowers. I know a few of you were thinking of going with orange as an accent color. I asked her if there were any bouquet options with orange flowers and she sent me this picture. It is not at all what I had in my head but I really like it a lot! I am not sure if this costs extra - Ana didn't say - I am going to ask her when I email her back. Oh and one more thing...I asked her about the lights under the tables and the star lights around the deck. She said the lights under the tables are $45 each and the star lights are $200. First of all, I love the flowers!!! I have a stupid question, how is the bride's bouquet supposed to differ from the bridesmaids' bouquets? 2nd, now you are making me want a DJ. I originally thought I would have a DJ and then looked at the dynamics of my group. half the group are my parent's age and half are my age (with probably more girls than guys). We will have approx 35-40 people. Would a DJ seem awkward? How many guests do you have? Also, I thought we did not have a choice on the DJ. I think we have to use the DJ that the resort uses. I don't know who that is though.

For those of you doing a sunset wedding, how much time prior to sunset are you giving yourself. The sun is supposed to set at 7:15 at the time I am getting married (May). I was going to get married at 5:30 (20 min wedding) which would leave over 1 hour of photos before sun sets. Ana said that she usually would suggest a 6pm wedding. I'm just wondering if that leaves enough time. What is everyone's opinion on this? I just want to make sure that we leave enough time for photos.

Quote: Originally Posted by soon2BMrs.Prince I have no clue, originally when i saw the DRC website I really liked the beach location and the set up on there. The only problem with this is space on the beach. It already looks a little tight with all the palapas and chairs. I plan on having a beach ceremony so a change of scenery would be nice. Did Ana suggest where the cocktail hour could take place? Yes, there were quite a few options. Basically anywhere on the resort that you are interested in would most likely work. The areas that we discussed were: -The deck that is next to the pool deck (actually part of the Oceana restaurant) can be used. This is a very pretty option, but decided since I am using the pool deck for the reception it would be nice to have a change in scenery. - The jacuzzi deck. Supposedly they can put some type of glass over the jacuzzi and the lights in the jacuzzi will shine through it. This would be pretty at night. I figure that most of the cocktail hour will take place while the sun is still out. - The garden area. I may choose this option for a change of scenery. I would like to see photos of other parties that take place on the grass. It's not very private but the greenery is really pretty. - The desires lounge terrace. Again this would be prettier at night. It is rather private though. - There are various decks/patios on the corners of the buildings but these are pretty small and would only work for very small parties. I haven't seen any photos of cocktail hours. It seems like all of the weddings that have taken place (or at least those which have shared the photos) are very small. I can't wait to see more photos!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by soon2BMrs.Prince Oh btw, does anyone know if kids are included in the head count? They clearly don't eat as much as adults and will not partake in the international bar :-) Just curious. That's a good question. So far, we only have 2 but I have been counting them this whole time. We should clarify that with Ana.

Quote: Originally Posted by Laura22610 The suit is really nice. In fact,when we took it to get altered, the person doing the alterations commented on how it was good material and that the sewing was really good. It took about a week to arrive. I think the company (MisterShop) is in Chicago because when I sent it back to exchange, I sent it to Chicago. Where did you get the groomsmen clothes?

Quote: Originally Posted by soon2BMrs.Prince Thanks for the photos. It really helps visualize things. Do you know if you have to pay extra to have the lounge furniture for the cocktail hour? You don't have to rent the furniture but you have to pay for the labor of moving it. I don't know what that price is. I'm sure it varies. Where are you thinking of having the cocktail hour?

I was originally going to do the gazebo so I wasn't worried about the style of shoe. But now that I am considering the beach wedding, I'm not sure what to do. (almost sounds like I am a poet...ha!) I would rather go barefoot than wear some dorky shoe that I can wear in the sand. Does anyone know if the sand will be too hot in May to walk barefoot? I was going to email Ana with this question, but since she gets so many emails I figured I shouldn't bother her with these little questions. I think most of you are planning on getting married on the beach. What are you doing?

This is great! I've been looking all over for sample invitation wording. There are some really good ideas in here!

Quote: Originally Posted by Princess402 Here's a good thread: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...-wording-5764/ Thanks!!! This is a great thread!

Quote: Originally Posted by Boo SDBeachgirl sorry forgot to mention I look first at taffeta overlay, organza for me is a bit of a hit or a miss, although I may buy it here and bring it with, still trying to limit amount of items that will be purchased Our colors are turquoise/blue and orange/coral/pink, so when I came across the set up (see link) I really liked it, I might just ask Ana to duplicate it, all in blue no green though Funny, I was just looking at this same photo this morning and had copied it to a WORD document too! I was about to email Ana, to ask if that is what my table cloth would look like. I think it looks nice with the wooden chairs. But I'm pretty sure those are extra. I was going to ask how much they cost to rent. Are you looking at the wooden chairs too? Or just the tables. I like your color choices. I am doing turqoise and have recently changed from chocolate to orange as an accent color. I may have to look into the orange/coral/pink combo too