Preciousmi811

Wishing you the best of luck in getting the money. I just have one question to ask you, you said he has never done anything like this before are you sure? Only because I went through something like this myself and all the times I thought I misplaced money 20 here 20 there (I thought I was going crazy) turns out he was stealing the money. Now I know this is a drastic scenario but just think back and make sure there isn't other questionable times. When people say they want to kill themselves it's a very powerful AND manipulative statement. Wishing you the best.....

Thanks for the site!!!

Pics look amazing!!! Congratulations!

Congratulations! You looked so beautiful and happy! Loved the pictures.

Great review can't wait for pictures!

YEAH!!!!! Congrats on your new house officially!

Wow very nice!!! You looked so radiant, congratulations.

Holy cow!!! I am glad I am flying my photographers out with me some of those packages are pricey!

Great job!!!

Thinking positive thoughts for you. What a crappy mess, I'm crossing my fingers that the other guy was trying to see if he could intimidate you guys by taking it to court. Stay strong keep us posted!

This sucks! Sounds like your sisters husband is running the show. If he is that kind of guy maybe you have to figure out a way to work the situation with him, if reasoning doesn't work maybe try smoozing to get in good graces. It sounds horrible but if you really want your sis there got to work all the angles.

This happens alot to my FI and he comes home and tells me when a girl tries to pick up on him or flirt with him. Even though I may be boiling inside I don't let it show and tell my FI "that's because your so hot and sexy!" I feel like he wants to hear it from "me" and he gets happy. Like anybody else people want to feel they are attractive and even though you tell someone you love them telling them they are hot stuff just sends them to cloud nine. If we ever run into one of these girls I always tease my FI and in my most ghetto voice I tell him how I gave her the stink eye and how I told her b*** this is my man, and we laugh about it. Of course I never really do any of that but the point is I try to bring it out in the open and poke fun at the whole issue. Don't forget your a hot tamale too and quite the catch. Don't let your insecurities control you. And most of all stop the tears there's no need he loves you!

Jungle Club pics if you go and excursion pics! Thanks!!!

Great pictures!!! The one for the STD is awesome!

Hi!!! Welcome to the site 29 people that is great! Happy planning.

Hi Heather I am also a May Negril bride! Congrats and welcome to the site. You seem like your already addicted so I don't have to warn you about the addiction to the site!!!

Great review and congratulations! Can't wait to see the pictures!

Thanks for the review. I can't to see your pictures.

Quote: Originally Posted by Stay-C Sounds like even though they do a lot of weddings, you will still enjoy the day simply because it is YOUR DAY. I'm stoked for the day I look my love in the eyes and profess my uncondition devotion to him. I won't even care about the other weddings going on. I am counting on being a teary, blubbering mess when I get married and I can't wait! I am right there with you. I am already considering not wearing eye makeup underneath my eye because I am sure by the end of my ceremony it will be a gooky mess. I don't know about you guys but I love watching weddings I would feel honored if people stopped and watched mine. It would add to the "my day" feeling. I heard a lot of brides say after their wedding random people came up and congratulated them and they felt very honored and touched.

YEAH!!!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by jerseykitten Preciousm811 - I'm having the same situation with one of my friends. We were great friends at work and out of work till I lost my job and I haven't heard from her much since then (March) PLUS I've also found out she has totally screwed me over with new jobs that she could have told me about at the company that have really hurt my feelings. There is only one other girl from that office that is invited, because she has shown to be a true blue friend in the face of crisis. my ex-friend does have access to the website to see info about the trip, but I hadn't even thought twice about not inviting her until I saw this thread. I'm still planning not to invite her - she hasn't cared about me - why should I care about her. IMO, If these people are so horrible, you don't need them at your wedding - it would just cause uncomfortability for all. By the way what a b**** That's so mean if the tables were turned you would be helping her out and offering new job info. I can't believe she would do that to a friend.

Thank you so much girls. You are all so right I don't care if they feel snubbed and I don't want that drama at my wedding. They do have enough info to show up but I have a feeling once they realize the snub they will bad mouth us too but at this point who cares? I just needed some written support for my backbone. Thank you!

SO I sent the STD's out with a formal invite to follow. I have decided to send a email blast for a tentative RSVP soon. In the meantime a couple we have sent a STD to have turned into horrible people and have hurt two very good friends of ours. We really don't want them to come anymore but I don't think it's right either to dis-invite them. I was just going to "forget" to send them the email tentative RSVP and formal invitation and see what happens....is this the wrong approach? Any suggestions? I need my bride support!

Oh good I should be having over 30 as well and am planning on the free wedding.

We are all in are late 30's so we are doing a bachelor and bachlorette party together and hitting the strip clubs and bars together. Just a thought.