Hello,
My wedding is not until June of 2010, but we recently went to St. John to scope things out and make some decisions. Here is our (somewhat) tentative plan.
Wedding and accommodations at Gallow's Point, Cruz Bay. At first I was all about a beach wedding but Gallows has a beautiful peninsula between the ocean and the bay. So it's a rocky point, lovely. All of our guests (50) will be staying at Gallows Point. It is a bit more expensive than we would like but we had too many people to get a villa, which we looked into. Also, our friends and family are definitely into bar hopping and Gallows in within easy walking distance of town. When my fiance and I were there, we rented a car for a few days to explore the island and spent a few days carless, which you can do if you are in town. Hopefully this will work for our guests and save them a little money. We are planning on having our reception dinner at The Balcony Restaurant in Cruz Bay. We heard that it used to be THE PLACE but recently the owner has acquired a few more restaurants on the island and the quality of hte restaurant has diminished. However, when we went there the food was GREAT, the owner was extremely nice and professional and the restaurant is just what we are looking for. It is the perfect size and we would have the whole place and they will give us menu prices without a restaurant buyout. (it usually seats 57 and we will have 50) I love boats and the 2nd floor harbor view is gorgeous. (we wanted a boat reception but we have a few close friends with seasickness issues so it was shelved) After the reception we are just planning to go downstairs to the Beach Bar and they said we can set up some tables on the beach to congregate. We are planning a welcome cocktail hour at the Fish Trap Restaurant, an open bar and a few hundred dollars of appetizers (the people there were SO nice and flexible, the place has a nice laid back ambiance)
I am in LOVE with the work of photographer Greer Rivera: www.greerrivera.com - Greer Rivera-Photographer-St.John Virgin Islands Martha's Vineyard Wedding Photographer
but she is NOT cheap. That decision might have to be made later, as we see how our budget holds up. Thanks for the info about Gary Felton, I'll check him out.
Flowers: I have no idea, I have looked at Passion Flowers and it seems fine. Honestly, we are not that into the flowers and decorations so it will likely only be a bouquet. We looked into Seamus Mulcare for cakes as well, mostly because there aren't too many choices of places that will deliver them to restaurants (that we found online). Again, we will probably be getting something pretty simple, so I'm not too worried about the cake. As a favor we are putting a case of Virgin Island beer in everyone's fridge and leaving a beach tote with some small island essentials in them (underwater camera, island info, other stuff I haven't figured out yet)
We went there and fell in love with the island but all of the plans we have come across are completely different than ours. We are pretty laid back and really just want all of our friends and family to have a good excuse for a great vacation together. We are all coming down Saturday (Brad and I are going a day or 2 earlier), having the wedding on Sunday and then just chillin the rest of the week. I bet you didn't want this much info!