Quote: Originally Posted by amyrot One more question on this.....my wedding is in early July, though I plan to send my invites out by the end of October...when should I have people RSVP by? although we expect about 30-35 people...we sent out STD to EVERYONE who is invited to the AHR- like 208 people. I can't just send invites to only the people I THINK coming to mexico, so I'm sending them to everyone. I want people to feel like they have the option of maybe deciding on Mexico even up to the month before the wedding..but at the same time i want to know a 'number' in late spring so I can plan for goodie bags, etc. I have lots of out of state people so not everyone might decide to use my travel agent.
Anyway, sorry so wordy...just want an idea about a rsvp date.! thanks!
You could always ask for an informal RSVP....we did that for our postcard STD's...we're getting married in May but asked for the responses by November and just said it's not set in stone but will help with the planning.