I feel really bad for you If it makes you feel better my dad, who didn't come to Mexico for our wedding, decided not to come to my AHR because he was working. I was pretty devastated considering he was one of the main reasons I chose to have the reception in the first place. My dad has A LOT of money so that definitely wasn't the issue. Also like you, I have worked 2 jobs for the last 16 months to pay for the wedding and AHR.
I have been watching your journey on BDW and you were such an inspiration to me to keep, your head high and enjoy the day YOU worked hard to create. In the end, you did it all for you and your hubby.