you know i just started planning my wedding and am finding the same problems, i know that my sister just got married in jamaica this year and it actually cost her $4000 on top of her vacation i was looking at something cheaper then that, mexico is also expensive by the look of things but i know that in cuba the paradisus chain is beautiful and the weddings are included like they say, only paying minimum amounts for the extra's! good luck on the searching i am still up in the air about what i am doing!