I'm sorry that your family is acting like that. Believe me, you are not alone! Maybe it is better that they aren't coming. You don't want anyone upsetting you on your wedding day. Plus, you're probably upset about it now, but once you get to the Bahamas and your wedding festivities have begun your wedding is all you'll be focused on. Just enjoy the time with your brother and your uncle. BTW, congrats on getting into shape! And tell your mom its WAY harder to achieve when your an adult. You should be so proud of yourself. Have fun rockin' that wedding dress!