Hi Kacy,
I am in the same boat as you so to speak! We are trying to narrow our location as well. My wedding planner has mentioned to me that the mayan will allow you more options as far as all inclusives go. Los Cabos is an amazing area and there were a few resorts that she would recommend one being Dreams. From research that I have done is does appear that there are limited all inclusives that meet our requirements. Unless the sky is the limit in terms of price, of course there will be more options.
Another thing that was mentioned was the beaches can tend to be rocky and the water a little more rough in terms of swimming. However, the Mayan can be more windy, but does offer nicer beaches/swimming? This is just what I have heard, I have no experienced it myself...?
Have you narrowed down any options as far as resorts go?
Happy planning!