I am not sure how my family will handle this situation either. It will be my 2nd time, but my FI's first. And I have different friends now, as well as all of his family. I won't be mad if I don't have one, but am not against it. I feel bad for my FI because some of my family feels like they've "been there done that" but his family hasn't. So lets just say it could get interesting lol