FutureMrsBane

Quote: Originally Posted by deefalvey Are you guys including her in the wedding? My fiance has 2 boys (8 and almost 11, they were 2 and 5 when we started dating) and while they have never been apprehensive about me or me marrying their dad, they do have a mother who is negative about me and this wedding. When they came back from the first weekend of being at their mom's after we got engaged, the were kind of distant and we could tell she must have said something. We are including the boys in the wedding. The older one is serving as the "junior" best man and the younger one is the ring bearer. I am saying vows with both of them and exchanging gifts (they are giving me a wedding band and I am giving each of them an ID bracelet) during the ceremony. We are making this wedding as much about the 4 of us becoming a family as it is about me marrying their dad. Once we explained all of this to them they became excited again and asked us if we could have the wedding next week. Blending families is never easy, I don't know if my story of my situation will be of any help. Best of luck to you! My FH also has a daughter, who will be 3 at the time of the wedding. We haven't had any problems with her accepting me, and we will be incorporating her into the wedding! Hopefully if you incorporate his daughter into the wedding she will feel better about everything; explain everything to her; and let her know she isn't being left out. When you marry your FH your also becoming an instant family with his daughter!

My FH has a daughter that will be 3 at the wedding and we are having her be the flower girl. I'm really not worried about it though!

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I don't know if you have chosen one yet, but I have gotten lots of good reviews for MAILE WEDDINGS AND PHOTOGRAPHY ON KAUAI and I am thinking of going through her. I haven't contacted her yet, but I have heard from numerous people that she does great work! Good Luck, let me know!

I've seen pictures of this church in several different places, but I know nothing about it other than the fact that its in Kauhi on the North Shore. I was wanting to know if anyone knew any information about it! I would love love love to get married there!! Thanks in advance! Its the same church in my profile picture since the picture probably won't load!!!

My name is Heather Marie, my Fiance's is Brandon Tyler. Our wedding date is May 21st, 2011 or May 28th, 2011 (we can't decide which weekend; one is graduation weekend, and one is memorial weekend. We just postponed the wedding for financial reasons and with the postponing of the wedding I get my dream wedding!!!!). We are wanting to get married in Kauhi. There is a chapel that I really love, but I also really want to get married on the beach!! Hopefully at Sunset, but we will see!!! We are expecting around 20-60 guests. I can't wait, and I'm already counting down the days!!