I am so glad I'm not the only one receiving slack for having a destination wedding. To be honest, I have my main list of people that I ABSOLUTELY want there, and I actually planned my date around dates that would work for all of those people on that list. They have all promised to be there and are so happy for us. As bad as this sounds - when anyone else complains about the DW wedding, I think to myself, 'well maybe I don't want them there if they're going to be downers about it anyways'