dshayes, I think your FI must be my FI's twin. When we fight it takes a loooong time for him to get over it too. Just give him his space and he will get over it. As far as the wedding goes, um my FI must have cancelled my about a billion times (privately of course) and once the fight is over he wants to know what was accomplished during the fight. They just know that saying that totally destroys us. Stay strong!! keep us posted