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We choose Cuba because it is a beautiful place, with very hospitable people. They are willing to accommidate in any way they can. Getting married there is very easy, relaxed, and they go out of their way to make it as special as they can. They is something for everyone in Cuba. The things to do are endless. The beaches are beautiful and the water is incredible. The tours also offer something for everyone. I have yet to have a bad experience there. And I could not have imagine getting married anywhere else. It was like paradise! They weather was perfect, the day beautiful. And the resort staff went above and beyond! It is also a very safe country to travel and be in. I am now counting the days until we can return to Cuba! I recommend the country to everyone who has the opportunity to travel there. I do not believe that anyone will or would regret getting married there. It will forever hold a special place in our hearts.

If you are using two envelopes then you can use a computer print out one for the outside envelope. And then just hand write their names only on the inside envelope.

I too had a similar problem. What I can suugest to you is to check the fine print of your ticket. Sometimes there are clauses there that can help with price difference. With any luck your travel agent will be able to get you a discount/refund or maybe even switch tour companies. That is what happened with us. But also remember that because you see a big price drop does not mean that is available for a group of your size. These may be the last seat or two on the plane that they are trying to get ride of. A lot of the times this is the case. Good Luck I know it is stressful, but there really is not a lot you can do about it. Just keep in touch with your TA and pour on the sugar. You know what they say abot honey!! And if she is a woman then all the better because she will understand your position.

I think you should speak with them. Explain to them how much it means to have them there. And that they could consider this a loan or a gift that will take care of the next few birthday, christmases, anniversaries, mother/father day gifts. I understand totally how you feel. I don't think I would have opted for a DW if my parents weren't coming. It would definitely not be the same special moment without my Dad to walk me down the aisle! And I am sure that I am not alone on this. Sometimes it is hard for people to accept help from others. It can be even more difficult to when it involves parents and their children. It is incredibly difficult for parents to accept help from their children becuase that is not how it is suppose to be (at least that is the general attitude) That parents help their children, not children help their parents. So go slow, it may be a pride thing which is very delicate as we all know! I hoep everything works out for you. But remember Until you leave there is always time to book.

Mybe you could ask both to take pictures. Lots of photographers work in pairs. Maybe you could suggest that you would really like to have both of them do the pictures so that no opportunities will be missed. That way you will be able to get more than one angle for the portraits. Good Luck

I was there a few years ago over the christmas holidays, and the weather was wonderful. It rained only one day and that was really heavy, but other than that it was blue skies, and hot sunny days. Great for the beach. I hope this helps. Good Luck and Have Fun.

Congrats, you are going to love it. It was one of the best experience I have had so far. The hardest part was keeping it a secret! Have fun!

The number of outfits may depend on how much time you have available. But for sure go with at least 3. That should give you enough variety. For ideas maybe a fun dress up outfits (halloween is here!) with sexy bra and panties peeking out, maybe a super sexy bra and thong set, or maybe just a white sheet. Don't for get to bring a selection od accessories (really long and medium length necklaces, choker), and shoes with high heels. The higher the better! Good Luck and have a blast!

Wow that is amazing!

You will love Cuba and this forum. The people on here are fabulous. They have the most amazing ideas and helpful hints. They are also incredibly supportive. My only warning is that you will become addicted like the rest of us! LOL! WELCOME!

We choose to have a welcome dinner for several reasons.... 1) So everyone could meet and be introduced and know we are part of the same party (some of guest are from overseas, and a number of them don't know each other) 2) added bonus because our resort has 7 ala cart restaurants but our packages only include two reservations. So we have a welcome dinner and a reception that takes care of 2 of the 7. As it turns out our resort is closing 2 restaurants for the slow season, so that brings us down to 3 restaurants left on the resort for our guests to try! 3) we are provided with this courtesy from the resort because of the business we are bringing them. Remember also this is a good way for the staff to learn who is part of your party too. I plan on doing a little extra "tipping" in the beginning of my trip in hopes of getting that little bit extra for the guests that I have coming. Because sometimes going out of your a little will make all the difference.

Quote: Originally Posted by bholthof Personally, I don't plan on getting sick - or if I do, I plan on lying through my teeth about it when we go!!! This is me too. But the documentation will not help any because they are checking everyone anyway. I contacted my resort WC and she said this is the same thing they did last spring with the original break-out.

OMG, you could have been talking about me! I too have a kind of love hate relationship with my mother! I can totally understand your frustration. I know this will be very difficult for you, but the time has come for you to stand up to your mom. I know they have this special superpower that You from 30 to 3, or 40 to 4. But you need to remain calm, and tell your mom that her regular antics would not be appreciative on this occassion and that if she can't control herself she will not be welcomed. And if she does decide to show up then I sugest to takes GracieBebe's advice and have the WCand security advised before hand so a quick word will do the trick. For my mom that would not work only cause a greater scene, but my FI has already told me any sh!t and he is going to step in, which I am not sure which scares me more, the scene with him or security! Good Luck, I really hope all works out for you. Remember you are an adult now too and deserve as much respect as any other adult. Sometimes parents seem to forget we have grown up.

Those are beautiful.

I am truly soorry to hear about your distress. I understand completely. I myself went, lived thru this. FI's daughter had just turned 2 when we met. She is now 24. And the only thing I can truthfully tell you is that if your FI is a pushover now when it comes to the kids it will only get worse. If he is avoiding telling you things, he will continue to do this in regards to his kids. And if his ex is giving you trouble, do not expect it to end until those babies are fully grown and no longer need support. A scorned woman is the worse and they will continue to live to make your life as uncomfortable as possible, for as long as possible. And then when support to the mother finishes don't think for a second that the kids will not have learned by then that Dad is the cash man! I only had to deal with one child. It was not always easy. And at times I did want to run screaming, I did stay. And finally we are getting married, because I allowed him to always put his daughter first when she was little. Now that she is grown up, well old habits die hard! I do not regret it most of the time, but I should have insisted that my priorites not be pushed aside (like marriage). Kids are important but you should not have to sacrifice too much for his children. Do not forget to take sue your needs and priorites are being met. Women, like us tend to be too self-sacrificing and always giving. Never taking time or anything for ourselves. You are just as important a person in this equation as anybody else (him, the kids, & his ex), because if you stay what affects them affects you too. Whether they like it or not, so make sure your voice is heard. Otherwise get out or your will be their doormat. Good Luck. I hope you find a sense of peace soon. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

I too was tempted by the "free package" but I found that usually the conditions they appiled were not to my liking. We decided on our resort by going through all of them and rejecting them for what ever reason. Some would not allow children, some did not have all the facilities I wanted, Spa/ salon, kids club. I also want to get in on one where kids stayed free. So it was basically throught the process of elimination that we chose ours. Good Luck, it is one of hte hardest decision. But when you have made it stay secure in your decision, because I think many of have second guessed ourselves, and worried for nothing in the end.

Wow Tammy you are amazing. You are basically a Jane of all trades. I thought I was handy, but boy you put me to shame. I cannot wait to try some of your recipes.

I am paying for my photographers travel expenses to cover the cost of her doing the wedding. She will shoot all day and also do a ttd, and take some causal photos of everyone throughout the week. I will have to pay extra for any photos I order, but she will give be a CD with all the prints. As an added bonus a friend of hers is also joining us and will also do photos of the big day. Her services will be free as she wants to start doing DW. She will also give me a CD of all the photos, so if I want any to order I can!

Woohoo! You are going to love the experience. Remember to relax and have a lot of fun. I have to say it was one of the most fun and empowering things I have gotten to do. You will have to remember to post some pics. And you will look beautiful regardless of how much weight you lose. Remember he already loves you.

Hello, and welcome. I too am getting married at the SLS in Varadero. You will love this forum and find many wonderful ideas and helpful hints. Good Luck and enjoy planning!

Try walmart first as they tend to be cheaper than Michael's. Unless of course you have coupon!

My FI says.... From one scot to another, that has never stopped us before!

The are beautiful. Your guests are going to love them. I wish I could get one! LOL, but not going to Thailand anytime soon.

Thats too funny! It is amazing how our guys who are suppose to be so tough and head strong can be so soft and squishy when the right buttons are pushed! I am thrilled that you were able to get him to see the light. He will definitely not regret it especially when you get the pics back, and if he is anything like my FI, will joking take all the credit for how wonderful and unique they are!

Well a few thngs happened the year I was born.... -landing and walking on the moon by Neil Armstrong -Woodstock -Bealtes give their last public performance, also year Abbey Road was released -first flight of Boeing 747 -Give Peace A Chance is recorded by John Lennon (1st single by lone Beatle) -Charles Manson & Sharon Tate go on killing rampage -1st ATM -last Warner Bros. cartoon of original theatrical Looney Tunes series released. -Brady Bunch premiers -1st Gap store opens -Walmart incorporates -Sesame Street premiers -1st strain of AIDS virus (HIV) came to USA -my Grandfather died