I am in the same boat as you!!!! After putting all of my energy into having my wedding at Dreams, Los Cabos, my family did the same thing to me. All in all for me it was important to have the people we care about most there with us. Changing the location was not what I wanted but since coming to this board I see that my second choice of ROR is good too. I just think there is so much more to do in general so I am happy with that decision. It did take a while for me to come to that realization though.