To be honest, I've only been engaged for about 1.5 and I find it weird to call Mike my FI. I thought I'd get over it by now but it seems so foreign to me. It may simply be a weird concept for some...
I agree that you should do what makes you happy. One of my girlfriends who had a destination wedding organized dinner for us then we were free to do whatever we wanted. Most of us were so tired from the days events that we went to bed!
Congrats and welcome to the forum. I joined in Feb and there is tons of excellent informatoin available. Get use to the search function as everything you can imagine has already been asked and responded to on this forum...it's wonderful.