I tried on my Aunt's engagement ring a few years ago when she took it off for me to try on she asked me to put it back on her finger because she said it was bad luck for her to put it back on herself after I had tried it on??!!
For our legal ceremony we will both be casual. I plan to wear a skirt and blouse or suit. Since we are telling absolutely no-one afterwards we will go out to dinner just the two of us.